what if you had someone to stay for a couple of weeks but they took the piss they went out and came back all hours of the day expected you to make their dinner clean up after them didnt even make their bed and then put all their dirty clothes in your washing basket and didnt even ask you to wash them just expected them washed
2007-01-11 10:19:57 · 11 answers · asked by smiley 4 in Home & Garden ➔ Cleaning & Laundry
its not my husband they dont have a key and its my friends brother
2007-01-11 10:31:03 · update #1
i am not getting any money off them its a favour for a friend and she would hit the roof if she knew he was doing this
2007-01-11 10:33:28 · update #2
This happened to me as well!! If you dont put a stop to it then it will just keep on the same! the guy wont look for anywhere else to stay as he has it good at yours. I would first have a word with your friend as you dont want to fall out over it either then if it doesn't stop then I'm sorry its your house take charge !! Don't let him back in!! Tell him its time to go!
Good luck i know how hard it can be but you got to be strong.
2007-01-12 00:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by Molly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd sit them down and tell them that they were pissing me off and then come to some arrangement e.g more money for rent, cooking dinner and doing laundry 3 times a week etc etc.
If that didn't work i'd just dump their clothes outside!
2007-01-11 10:30:37 · answer #2 · answered by vickymitty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you're married lol
dump their laundry on their bed, still dirty and don't make dinner for them. If they don't get the hint, tell em to get out, change the locks and dump their stuff on the front step
2007-01-11 10:28:32 · answer #3 · answered by vannilla26 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask for their door key back and just let them know you will not tolerate them any longer! You are not a skivvy and the sooner he/she realises that they will get out your way. You wouldn't put up with it if you're married let alone a lodger!
2007-01-11 10:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by doreronsoton 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that it's their stuff and they can't make you wash or clean it for them.Then kick them out if they continue to do that and NEVER wash or clean their clothes or anything. Unless they are going to pay you.
Good luck!
2007-01-11 10:30:12 · answer #5 · answered by xFrozen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When they next went out put all there stuff in bags and put it outside. They should get the hnit then.
2007-01-11 10:26:26 · answer #6 · answered by Gsplan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pends you could wait it out or you could drop hints to ur sister
say.. was he always this messy growing up?
... im glad i didnt have to grow up in the same house as him how did you do it?
etc etc im sure you can think of something appropriate
good luck hope i helped
2007-01-11 11:46:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would ask them to leave. Or to give some respect to the hostess of the house
2007-01-11 10:28:00 · answer #8 · answered by surfer grl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grin and bare it. With any luck he will be gone soon.
2007-01-11 10:41:53 · answer #9 · answered by Terry Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would marry them :) sounds just like my wife heh.
2007-01-11 10:27:54 · answer #10 · answered by naplusultra 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋