my bf and me have a really loving relationship but its changed latley we argue over nothing most of the time hardly have sex anymore like just once a month and we dont even talk that much anymore i think hes going off me when we first got together we were all over each other always kissing and hugging eachother but now we hardly do he looks round me when im stood in front of him to look at the tv or computer when im trying to talk to him and then i go in a mood with him and when he sees im up set he starts hugging and kissing me and saying aww baby wots up with you and i love you and other stuff i just dont know what to do about it i want to put some spark back in are relationship what should i do plz plz help me im really confused and were going to end up breaking up if we dont sort it out as soon as we can i never want to end things with him because i love him so much so help me plz
2007-01-11 10:10:28 · 10 answers · asked by xxadamisfitxx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like you need to go on a break for a while, and if its meant to be then you will get back together. However, it definitely seems like there need to be some change going on, and sounds like it needs to come from his part.
You should confront him about how you feel and tell him your concerns about the state ytour relationship is in currently. If he avoids confrontation, try to explain that he needs to help you in sorting out your problems in order to keep the relationship together.
Find out if he is really losing interest by discussing it with him, that is the only way you can work through it. If he is unwilling to work with you on the realtionship then its time for you to move on. A break might be good for the both of youtofigure out what you really want form each other, or discover that you are interested in other people. In any case you have to talk with him, in a meaningful way mind you; that is make sure he is actually in the discussiona nd ot nodding his head or simply saying what you want to hear (if thats the case then he may be just 'letting you dangle' until he finds someone else)
Dont let him ignore your concerns, if he doesn't help you then you are better off. If you both cooperate and work on getting the spark ignited again, you could reclaim a happy realtionship.
Good luck.
2007-01-11 10:22:19 · answer #1 · answered by kevin O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, you are going to have fix that sex problem, once a day at least, time for then to go see a sex therapist I think, if necessary, a sexy horny one.
you just have to try to compete with the pc I think
figure out what he gets from it and give him that
after a few years any relationship is bound get a little boring sometimes, I mean , when you already know what he or she can do for you , and are starting to get bored a little, maybe time to invite somebody else into bed too, maybe end it, maybe have a kid
2007-01-11 18:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes guys just need a little space. He could very well love u and still not be next to you. He could be content just having you with him. If you need more let him know talk about it, don't let your relationship go down the drain because of a rough patch.
2007-01-11 18:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by the_sameold_dolph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest he’s doesn’t want to be with you any more he’s just being a jerk so you can let him off the hook.
He wants you to let him go because he knows that you care about him more than he cares about you but he’s scared of the breakup because you’re going to cry and try to make him stay with you. So you have to think do you want him to break your heart or you break your own and make that decision to leave him. Trust me it would be better if you broke up with him you can start healing faster.
2007-01-11 18:17:54 · answer #4 · answered by BLB G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you self a favore. Concentrate on yourself and making your life as meaningful as possible. The right person is going to fit with your personality and lifestyle. Don't force a relationship that is wrong and will consume your life.
2007-01-11 18:14:45 · answer #5 · answered by twoskinsoneman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL......that happens in mostly all the couples....try to talk to him..explain to him what you think...tell him how you feel....don't let time to pass, thinking that he might change...maybe he thinks that he has you for sure with him.and probably that is why he acts like that with you.....but let him know that he can losses you....if he doesn't initiate sex..you do it...and if he doesn't want to do it..ask him WHY?..in that moment.....try to hug him or give him a kiss and if he refuses you ask him again WHY?..ask him if there is something wrong to let you, if you love him and don't want to loose him...try to work it out.try new things with him, go to a trip with him or do yourself a makeover do something different..good luck.....
2007-01-11 18:22:54 · answer #6 · answered by abril b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like things are getting stale. Usually when they start getting interested in someone else they will not have sex with you very often, they start not returning calls, leave the room to answer their phone calls or cell phone calls, act sneaky, start working out, etc just keep your eyes and ears open
2007-01-11 18:16:41 · answer #7 · answered by rocky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is bored with you. These things happen in relationships, some men/women get bored real easy. Sounds like your b/f fits into this category.
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2007-01-11 18:15:03 · answer #8 · answered by Wibble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have given im much Libety to feel Ur body.So He is in SKY .
Stop tis ,give him cold shoulders ?&C his reacion .THN take next step ?ok
2007-01-11 18:18:58 · answer #9 · answered by NAVIN S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a many faceted stone, some fade, some shine, some get lost, and others stolen... either way, life is good, enjoy your gem until it's no longer yours
2007-01-11 18:15:58 · answer #10 · answered by Mergeman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋