Can an Aries women and a Sagittarius man be truly in love with one another and have a real relationship?

Question

Me and my guy has been dating exclusively for the last 4 mo ,but has been knowing each other for the last 3yrs during those years he was in a relationship but still seeing me. I was doing my own thing as well but during all that we kind of fell in love. but couldn’t be together like we wanted to because he was already in a relationship. But now we reunited after a year and we’re trying to make it work. We both know about each other ways as far as us liking to be around the opposite sex and our flirtatious ways. I know sometimes we don’t trust each other and scared to give in to one another thinking that we’re out to hurt each other. So the question is can it work for 2 fire signs to be in love truly whole heartily?

Answer 1

"Most people of these matches are in it for life."
http://www.astrology-online.com/arsunsa.htm

Yep you definitely will ^ _ ^.

Answer 2

I was in a very long relationship with a Sagittarius.
See, Sagittarians lives for adventure,new ideas and different things to do. Aries on the other hand are very loyal and can adapt to any lifestyle. So if you like to stay home and just be lazy with each other your Sagittarius may not like it. Sagittarius have bad raps for cheating too, that's what happened to me. They tend to get bored easily and like you said, he was in another relationship when he was seeing you. Same thing that happened to me! And i'm also an Aries.
As long as you get that trust issue taken care of, i'm sure your relationship will be a happy one. In my opinion, trust is the most important part of a relationship. Try talking things over with him about how you feel, Sagittarians love honesty (even though they may not always be honest) as much as an Aries.
Fire and Fire do go well together, but i encourage you to do both of your charts on cafeastrology.com(seriously the best online chart you can do), that way you know how you can truely get along. Best of luck to you.

Answer 3

Aries and Sagittarius

In many ways, the Ram and the Archer make an ideal combination, being the embodiment of Fire's vigour and enthusiasm. Ram is a natural leader, while Archer is a free spirit who has no desire to be always in the front rank. Any issues about power and control can be sorted and the 'ready for anything' Ram finds a true companion in the optimistic Archer.

However, you can expect some verbal battles as head-on Ram matches wits with humorous Archer. If you get too pompous, Sagittarius will fire barbed arrows to deflate any excessive self-importance. Together you have the courage and daring to take you to the horizons you seek. Both of you are idealists and may share causes or beliefs that become the stars you aim for. You both love to fly and are given to inspirational ventures, so make sure you don't come crashing down too often for lack of grounding or practical considerations. Such wear and tear will cost your relationship in the end. Learn to direct your endeavours, as discipline and consistency are skills you must acquire rather than possess naturally.

Mars gives you the ability to lead, to break new ground, while Jupiter gives the Archer a philosophical temperament, along with a great fondness for travel and the inclination to take risks. Your versatile Archer can suggest solutions and strategies if you will listen. You can direct your delightful Sagittarian to renewed effort when interest wanes or shifts. Remember, neither sign is above creating drama to stave off boredom! Such fireworks will be wearing and can erode commitment or interest. Check your charts for Earth Signs to guide you as to how this side of things will go.

Life in the bedroom will be vigorous and exciting, given good placements for Mars and Venus. Your diet will be everything from the quick snack to the five-course meal. Both of you have a roving eye, so be clear about the rules! Neither will hesitate to speak when slighted. In the end though, you are both quick to forgive and forget.

Remember that the Archer loves freedom above all. If you jealous Rams try to confine your roving centaurs, you'll lose them as they rush to a new horizon.

Domestic life can be a performance. Two fiery temperaments won't want to be confined for long and two adventurous spirits will yearn to be off on madcap travels. With all this in mind, the Ram and the Archer can be a blessed and most fortunate union. It's a perfect match!

Answer 4

Well I'm an Aries and have been married to a Sag for 23 years. Yes trust was a big one to get over. But we fought through it and have been happy most of the time. At times those fire signs do get firey and cause for really good fights but in thr long run the love is worth it!

Answer 5

YES,ARIES WOMEN AND A SAGITTARIUS MAN CAN BE TRULY IN LOVE WITH ONE ANOTHER.
THEY COULD HAVE A REAL RELATIONSHIP

Answer 6

My grandmother is an aries and my belated grandfather(sagg) were married for 52yrs. They fell in love with eachother kinda like love at first sight and they were very young when they met. However, they were comitted to eachother from the start. They were very honest with eachother and laid their cards out on the table. So it depends on how both of you all are committed to eachother. But yes it could work. Aries and Sagg are very compatible. But you both have a reason to doubt eachother since you both exhibited traits of infidelity.

Answer 7

Enthusiasm, a sense of adventure, and high spirited play infuse your relationship. You both feel you can be yourselves fully with one another: you don't have to tone down any of your exuberance and energy, the way you might with someone else. In fact, you inspire and vitalize one another's strength. Aries sometimes clashes or competes with other strong individuals, but Sagittarius is tolerant, not threatened, and doesn't take the bait. Also, you both need personal freedom and space, and even if you spend all of your time together, you are unlikely to feel smothered in this relationship. A happy twosome!

Both of you are somewhat uncomfortable with emotional neediness, dependency, and feelings in general. Sagittarius often intellectualises feelings rather than experiencing them fully and directly, and may filter personal experiences through a philosophical system that regards certain feelings to be "positive" and acceptable, and other feelings to be "negative", unacceptable, and to be avoided. Aries may become annoyed with being told how one "should feel" in a given circumstance. In particular, Sagittarius may try to humour or talk Aries out of Aries' anger.

However, there is also much harmony and compatibility between you on an emotional level. Both of you crave personal freedom and a certain degree of independence. Neither of you wants to be completely "owned" by another person. You need respect for your individuality and you will respect one another's right to make your own decisions, etc.

Also, both of you enjoy vigorous, competitive play or high-spirited intellectual sparring.

Both of you are high-energy people. Aries can help Sagittarius learn to direct competitive drives and personal power into positive channels, as this is something Aries has mastered in ways that Sagittarius is still grappling with. Sagittarius tends to go overboard, and become aggressive, angry, and belligerent at times, whereas Aries is smoother and less likely to aggravate other people when being assertive and forceful. Aries has integrated and developed certain aspects of the masculine principle (the ability to act, to achieve, to assert the self effectively) and can model this for Sagittarius.

This is a friendship that is likely to last a lifetime because you re able to openly share your inner feelings and experiences to a degree that is rare with others. You love long talks, especially about people, relationships, and personal matters, and have a tendency to gossip. You are able to confide in one another and feel that you are being heard and understood. You discover things about yourself and your true feelings by discussing them with one another, which makes your relationship very rewarding.

You have a strong affinity with one another, an instinctive rapport that enables you to know one another very well, almost from the start. A basic compatibility exists which helps you to overcome the stressful or problematic facts of your relationship. You have a natural sense of belonging with one another, and partnership of some kind is likely to develop and flourish.

You enjoy laughing, having fun, socializing, and going out together. You are great pals, but the relationship may not be serious enough to warrant a lasting commitment to each other. Consequently you both may decide to not marry even though you may love each other very much. If you do marry, you will allow each other a great deal of freedom, but you are likely to disagree on how to handle finances, budgeting and investments.

There is a strong romantic quality to your relationship, but you will also experience times when the qualities of your partner contrast sharply with the qualities that you had envisioned that your "Ideal Lover" would have. Do not try to force your partner to conform to your desires; each person must be true to themselves.

The romantic love and sexual attraction for each other is very compelling and deep. You wield a powerful, charismatic influence on each other and your love affair is a powerful one. This could be one of the most fulfilling, all-consuming relationships of your life!

You may tend to go overboard in sexual gratification. Both of you have a strong sex drive, love-hate relationships are definitely not for you.

Answer 8

It can work but you're going to have a bumpy ride ahead of you.
Both of you are very stubborn but together full of passion!

Answer 9

It can work if you want it to, but there may be some tough times ahead of you.

Answer 10

i do not think it matters what star sign you are, you can be in love with anyone