man isnt? Either way its not with your partner... its never looked at as cheating though.
2007-01-11 09:24:48 · 23 answers · asked by izzabella_74 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
because it is almost every mans fantasy to see his girl with another woman, but to be touched by another man is disrespectful to him ,,, yea right....
i think in any realationship when it hits the sexual phase that is when both parties need to actually sit down and talk about boundries, if you both accept these boundries than there is no use in complaining about them later...
in my opinion, if you man want to have a 3some with another woman then you should be able to have a 3some with another man,, hey what is good for the goose is good for the gander.
2007-01-11 09:30:41 · answer #1 · answered by schally31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually , me and my husband have had this discussion.. although he loves the thought of a 3 some (2 girls and him) he cant handle the thought of a 3 some of 2 guys and me which i told him i wont do one unless he'll do the other lol (knowing full well he wont go for it lol) and he himself has even said that even with a woman he doesnt think he could handle it, because to him its cheating whether its a man or a woman, its someone being intimate with me thats not him and he feels thats cheating .. so men actually do sometimes think that way.. plus he's worried i may like her better then him and leave him for her lol..
The reason most guys dont view it as cheating is because thats their fantasy thats what they want to either be a part of 2 girls together or watch cause it turns them on.. but if they werent allowed to watch or play an active part and it was kept all behind closed doors id bet they would view it as cheating then why? cause they'd get nothing out of the deal..
2007-01-11 17:34:43 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know where you have been hanging about, but any type of sex with anyone besides your partner is cheating. My husband would be just at hurt if it was with a woman rather than a man. Cheating is cheating and gender of the other participant means nothing.
2007-01-11 17:34:42 · answer #3 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, it's because for some reason, guys find lesbian sex hot. We live in a strange world where some guys have the philosophy "girls don't count" when it comes to their partner. In my honest opinion, I feel that sex with anyone that is not your partner is considered cheating. If you're in a committed relationship, then getting that intimate with another person - regardless of gender- is still cheating.
2007-01-11 17:31:46 · answer #4 · answered by Snowball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are following the rules of some ignorant man. It is not okay for you to be with anyone else while in a relationship. Is it okay for a man to be with another man? No. Don't fall into this b/s. Any honest man will tell you that he doesn't want to see his woman with another woman, unless he really doesn't care about her.
2007-01-11 17:34:55 · answer #5 · answered by redbird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not ok, most who say it is are having fantasy problems, the majority of the ones who say it would be ok, would be the ones with the biggest hang ups and relationship problems if they if it did happen. Cheating is cheating, personaly I would have to evaluate myself as a man if my woman felt she needed to be with a chick.
2007-01-11 17:38:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't like being bested by other guys. That's just part of their nature. But if she cheats with a woman, he'll think it's hot.
2007-01-11 19:21:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who ever said being with the same sex is ok? If you are in a committed relationship and you go to be with someone else even if they are the same sex it is cheating. Nothing more nothing less.
2007-01-11 17:28:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is like comparing apples and oranges.
A man can not compete with a women, because they are just too different.
A husband feels inferior to the wife's lover. The more the husband loves his wife the more pathetic he feels toward himself.
2007-01-11 17:34:49 · answer #9 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'Cause--two women together is HOT; It's disrespectful to allow another man to touch your woman. Some guys think it's cool, though. I don't.
2007-01-11 17:31:17 · answer #10 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋