and then again leaves and does not see those children eather and then goes and has another child do you think he should have to have a vesectomy or be castrated coz maybe they was other kids of his out there too coz he liked to put it about a bit ( i mean a lot)
2007-01-11 09:16:24 · 15 answers · asked by justme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i am women 2 and child one was when he was 17 hes 38 now and i not bitter just gets up my nose when even though he has not seen the kids for 2and half years i still to ask him for permision to change kids names to mine and well i dont know where he is to do so !
and if i had known that he was a dirty cheeting child abandening git i would off never gone there ! i guess women 3 is just plain stupid as she knows that i devorced him for domestic violance
2007-01-11 09:26:56 · update #1
last year i gave him my address so he could see th kids but well i guess he thinks it easyer just to pretend they not there
anyway they go me and my hubby and we love them lots so WHO NEEDS HIM !!!!1
2007-01-11 09:33:32 · update #2
thanks a lot to all the people who have pointed out i cant spell but i am dyslexic and i can't work out how to spell check the further details bit thanks for being so understanding
2007-01-11 22:39:58 · update #3
Stop, stop, stop...come back when you are coherent.
2007-01-11 09:19:14 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Are you child forgotten?? If so then I am sorry--Its not always that the Dad walks away form the kids they have fathered--I have seen women do the same and start over--or have kids and give them up for adoption and then have some they keep and then again have one they give up--and what about those gals that just keep having relationships that produce kids so 20 years later they have a litter of 10 or more and not near any of them have the same Dad?? Shouldn't they be spayed?? Don't just say its the men its not--and sometimes the Moms don't allow the Dads the opportunity to see the kids they keep moving the children all over so its near impossible for the Dad to find them--then the Mom tells the kids their Dad doesn't care --When that is not the case--
2007-01-11 17:25:18 · answer #2 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He will die the sad lonely one. Isnt a shame so many men cause so much unneccessary pain and suffering to women and their children, just because they cannot do the decent thing. These men are selfish and that's all there is to say, 50 years ago it would have be so frowned on a man behaving in such a way but now people accept these things, but with the same token, Im sure you are happy now he has left and of course no child deserve to know a father who cannot respect others, but these days we are told to inflict poor parents on children who for the most part do not want to be upset by seeing a self centred man.
The world is nuts, but the best advice I can give is:
love many
trust few
always paddle your own canoe!
2007-01-11 18:04:28 · answer #3 · answered by oceanwaves 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He does sound like a bit of a prat, but I assume that women numbers 2 & 3 knew what he was like - so he's not completely blameless.
He shouldn't be castrated - we don't yet live in such a draconion state, but he should be made to pay for the upkeep of the children as well as providing a father figure during their upbringing.
2007-01-11 17:20:21 · answer #4 · answered by mark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it takes two to make a baby, and if a guy has abandoned his first child, he would have no hope of having another one with me, because OBVIOUSLY there is a chance he will do it again.
We gotta be a bit wise as well girls! Don't get pregnant by a good for nothing child abandoner!
2007-01-11 17:24:39 · answer #5 · answered by CHARISMA 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he is a freak! men shouldn't be allowed to go around having kids all over the place! anyway sometimes the kids are better off without losers like him! if men had more respect for themselves the country might be in a better state!
2007-01-11 18:41:01 · answer #6 · answered by joanne f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people like that should have a vesectomy...those children don't need to live like that.
2007-01-11 17:21:30 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He ought to be made to pay BIG TIME for all his children's support. Maybe it'll hurt if he gets hit in the pocketbook.
2007-01-11 17:19:39 · answer #8 · answered by snddupree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is an ***!! i have exactly same problem!! THEY SHUD NOT BE ALLOWED 2 FATHER KIDS IF THEY DONT FACE THEIR RESPONSIBILITIES men get off so easily but its the mother that has 2 rear the kid and teach it everything if u wanna chat IM me ok ?
2007-01-11 22:32:09 · answer #9 · answered by dellyboppers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a deadb eat dad who needs to spend a long time in p[rison.
2007-01-11 17:21:11 · answer #10 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for you to have children with a guy like that says one thing....but to type a whole story with so many misspellings says another thing....
2007-01-11 17:40:01 · answer #11 · answered by Ana P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋