He cheated on me but I cheated on him first by messing around with my ex and he didn't like it but he will willing to forgive and forget and I love him to death and some people don't understand the love we have for each other. After he broke up with me and want to get back together I told him he is going to have to show me his love for me, how trustworthy he can be and how far he is willing to go to be with me! He want to take the challenge and I do to! But how do I get my friends to still accept it and still be around?
2007-01-11 09:15:22 · 7 answers · asked by Cee B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you love him and know that he will not cheat again, and that you can make this work, then I say go for it! You don't come across the loves of your lives everyday, so I'd say, if these friends aren't willing to let you choose who you want to be with, then they're not real friends are they? I'm sure that you'll find new people to hang out with eventually. Remember, he'll always be there for you.
But do what you think is right, otherwise you're never going to forgive yourself!
2007-01-11 09:21:26 · answer #1 · answered by Sophie R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both of you are at fault for your problems....so if the both of you are willing to try again...more power to you but don;t let each other bring up the **** from the past....don't throw it at each other's face every fight you have because you will never be happy.....if both of you are willing to try let the past go and move on to your future together....now if your friends ask you to choose....they are not your friends.....they should stand by all of your decisions even if you get hurt in the end....they don't have to like him but they do have to respect the way you feel about him......good luck...wish you the best
2007-01-11 17:44:02 · answer #2 · answered by Ana P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu do have the right to determine your own destiny. YOu and the man should get into couiples counseling to bond your relationship and make sure it;s oin track.
As for friends, they come and go anyway. If theyreally love you, they will accept, maybe not immediately, but over time.
2007-01-11 17:23:31 · answer #3 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heres your problem...Stop talking to your freinds about your problems with your boyfreind obviously they feel this way because you have in the past and they care about you and dont want to see you hurt again just make it a point to keep your life with him to yourself.
2007-01-11 21:04:30 · answer #4 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you both cheated on each other before, you two shouldn't get together. your friends are trying to protect you from getting hurt
2007-01-11 17:32:17 · answer #5 · answered by fuzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you both are going to forgive eachother and want to take another shot at it. then go for it, and about your friends, real friends are understanding of your choices. and if they are real friends they will be back.
2007-01-11 18:22:24 · answer #6 · answered by D T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be cheesy, but follow your heart. If your friends are true friends they will stick by you.
2007-01-11 17:20:53 · answer #7 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋