Why do girls care so much what guys think, but guys could care less what we think.?

Question

Whats up with that?
we do our hair, and makeup we buy perfume, we go to hollister to buy a new outfit for one date, but guys dont care what girls think, most of the time they act stupid or something.
I have a good boyfriend so im not complaining.
But We go through SO much, and spend so much money looking good for a guy.
But all they do is wear axe. Or something.
I just wanna know what the difference is, like why we care so much what guys think?

Answer 1

girls have less self-esteem and they need attention from guys to feel better about themselves so they'll do whatever is necessary to achieve that. most guys find their happiness elsewhere, whether it be through their friends or their hobbies... to them, girls are an addition to their life, not a needed thing to complete it. the importance that each sex holds of the other determines how much effort they put into their appearance. plus, guys know that girls kinda like the scruffy, rugged look so why get all clean and metro when they'll be made fun of and get called gay?

Answer 2

Because we don't get into that stuff. The most we figure is necessary is a suit and cologne. If you don't know we're interested in you by the mere fact we are out with you, we figure it's you who have the problem. Gigolos get all pimped for you and all they care about is if you'll have the money at the end of the night. Money and preparation time spent on a date doesn't necessarily equate to how we feel about you.

Answer 3

surely it relies upon on the guy, some adult males favor to wait for marriage to attend and performance sex. i actually am 19 and that i will wait til' my marriage evening, however that's beside the point. some adult males are better wanting to lose their virginity, even if or not it is from peer rigidity or another aspect. It basically really relies upon on the guy. yet once you're saying "Why do adult males care a lot less about their virginity than females?" it really is not entirely real, not all adult males "care a lot less" it is obviously basically the adult males you're round.

Answer 4

All men care about, from the age of 13 until they die, is women. You could walk out in a potato sack and a mohawk, and guys will still want you. If a man gets to involved in grooming, he is probably gay, or in denial about it. We appreciate the efforts, but truly, they are just little sugar flowers on the icing on the cake. We like 'em, but truly only crave the cake beneath. I love crappy analogies too.

Answer 5

In response to Dyannah L:
I also care about not being stereotyped as only being interested in sports and cars. That makes a total of 3 interests. So I guess that makes you wrong.

Life lesson for the day:
Quit picking up guys at clubs and bars.

Answer 6

We are men. We do not communicate in the same way women do.
Guys DO care but rarely speaks about it.

Women tend to speak more, but sometimes even when they lack a real opinion. Because speaking makes 'em feel good.

Answer 7

Well, coming from a girl, cause most guys don't really seem to care about anything. Girls want to find the perfect guy, and to get him, she will basically do anything to get him; and guys on the other hand...

Answer 8

Because guys are absent-minded, Girls are outspoken.

Answer 9

I think you are underestimating the amount of time that guys spend trying to figure out the best ways to impress girls

Answer 10

wouldnt we all like to know that answer to that. i guess its cause they havent grown up yet. its part of life.