Should I get a divorce?

Question

My husband is a dick.

Answer 1

yes and find someone who will treat you like queen

Answer 2

Most men are ***** at times. Most women are bitches at times.

Why did you marry him? What were you looking for when you got married? Do you have the same life goals? Do you have the same life philosophy (the same outlook on life)? Do you have similar spiritual grounds? If not, you married for the wrong reason(s).

Why do you want to get divorced? Is there physical abuse? Mental or emotional abuse? Incompatibility? Don't like the way he pick his @$$ then pick his nose then picks his teeth? What is it?

Divorce may seem like an easy way out of relationships that don't work, but they're hard--on you, on him, on children involved. It's sometimes hard working on relationships, and there are many times that relationships should change from one of marriage to one of being friends, or at least civil to each other.

Consider seeking professional advice before you embark on divorce. If you do want a divorce, do it quickly, cleanly, and without trying to hurt each other. That's never a good thing.

Answer 3

If you can go on a site like this and announce such a thing, then you are either really mad, childish, fed up, showing off, or nuts. Or all the above.
I think it is really mean and childish even to think such things about someone you are supposed to love. And if he is controlling, cruel, addicted, gone, or cheating, then, get out now. If YOU are those things, get out now.
But you don't gain anything by calling people names, even if you are mad. It just belittles both of you. Don't you think so?
If you have children, DRAG him to marriage counselling. If he won't go, YOU go alone, and figure out what you are to do next. Your children will pay heavily for your choices.
If you are not a mother, get out now, and vow to wait a year before getting involved with another man. (It will take a year for you to stop being bitter.)

Answer 4

Gee, how can we argue with that?

How is he a dick? Is he a dick for hitting you or for not letting you hit him? Is he a dick for ignoring you or for wanting to spend time with you? Is he a dick for cheating on you or for not wanting you to cheat on him?

But I would say get a divorce so that your husband either can no longer hurt you or no longer has to put up with you.

Answer 5

if you are serious about this question then I am sure (I hope), that you only wrote it here out of despair and probably u will not read the answers, but if you do, please don't be taken by those who says yes and get more gloomy about it.. you know very well that no one here knows what is the story from ur question.. jst take it easy, breath in and out... take a rest, a vacation, and go away to think clear... if you really need help go for professional or a trusted friend / family member who knows both of you better... remember there is always two sides of the story, and even if you told us the story in details, it will only be yours... and I see that you are seeking others... that means yours is not clear enough to yourself to start with...

Answer 6

Why did you marry him in the first place then? Sure, take the easy way out. Why should you be any different from all the other divorcees? After all, it is an awful lot of work to make a marriage good.

Answer 7

Divorce is not an option unless abuse is there. Your marriage vows said "til death do us part". You didn't say whether you had kids (if you do divorce is NEVER the answer). You didn't give any other information. Hard to give you another answer. Counseling works better than divorce.

Answer 8

if ur not happy and haven't been for awhile, then you have something to think about. You need to tell him how you feel before you just go and get a divorce. Communication is key to a relationship, and perhaps he has some issues he needs to address and that is why he's an #$%^.

I'm no counsellor, but trust and communication are keystones to any working relationship.

good luck

Answer 9

hi only you can find the answer to this one because its how much you love him in your heart but things dont have to be bad and go wrong you can think chat work to make things fun happy but in the end its how much you love and care for him if its no then yess get a divorce if its love then as i said work trough things togher its up to you and how you feel so think long and hard first and do whats right fot you only.

Answer 10

Ma'm, from someone, who's been through one? it ain't a bit fun. I assume there are no Children? But the Dating scene, is a whole lot worse than Hubby is. Bank on that. If you go through with it? Be ready to meet, "Things", that'll turn your stomach. and I'm a Guy, by the way. "To Thine own self, be true".

Answer 11

Wow if your decision to divorce your husband is based on feedback from Yahoo answers I'd say go ahead. he will be much better off without you