I like this boy for a very long time but i have never told him because i think he would just see me as a friend. Today, my friend told me that she liked him and if i could hook them two up. I said, yeah,so i told him that she liked him and he said he would have to get to know her before, he goes out with her and he likes her too. I dont know if i should still tell him that i like him? So please help people!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-11 09:07:58 · 32 answers · asked by Lovely 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why keep these feelings inside your heart
it is doing you no good
You got to tell him how you feel
Then the decision making he would
Be able to choose if he likes you too
and wants to take you out
then this other friend of yours
tell her Back Off with a shout
But only if you think he will
feel the same as you
cause if you think he doesnt
your options are very few.
Just listen to heart and know
the next steps to take
but either way just know inside
that friends are hard to make
be careful not to make both mad
at you because of this
cause if they both dont like you
its two friends you had - & now miss.
You should not hold back on your feelings lady- tell him the deal- and be honest - if he feels the same great = if he wants to be friends then okay to - but I would put it to him like this- "HAVE YOU EVER THOUGHT ABOUT YOU AND I GOING OUT ? " and see what he says- Good Luck
2007-01-11 09:21:03 · answer #1 · answered by lee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should let him know because u have been feeling this for a while but u dont want to look like a hater and come out with the news it seems like because she wants u to hook her up. Sit down and tell your friend the truth about how u feel because if they do hook up and have a relationship the truth is out and they can decide to do whatever knowing the circumstances. If she's a friend she will understand that this has been a long term thing as far as u liking him and she'll back off and let u do your thang if he's willing to look beyond a friendship with u.
2007-01-11 09:38:42 · answer #2 · answered by SingleMommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just had a recent problem like yours, i like this guy for a long time but never told him becuase i thought it might ruin our friendship. From what you said that your friend asked you if you could hook them up I am assuming that you and your crush are friends. So here is my advice, I think you should tell him, i gave up countless oppertunites myself and even hooked up a friend of mine with him when he liked me all along. I am dating him now and I have been very happy, I only wish I had told him sooner. So do what you think you should do and what your heart tells you to do, but I say go for it.
2007-01-11 09:34:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say hey, before I hook you up with my friend, I want you to know that I have feelings for you more than friendship. Tell him you would like the chance to see if it can be more. Of course you will have to deal with your gf she will see this as a stab in the back. She has already shown interest in him. You may have to let them get together, and wait to see what happens. You will still have his friendship. Tough situation. Good Luck
2007-01-11 09:16:25 · answer #4 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to tell him now after all this time ?
You mean to tell me no other girl that you know of has been out with him this entire time you have liked him "a very long time?"
So, now your friend wants to date him you feel the urge to say something.?
You will cause nothing but drama if you say anything to either one.
First of all, has he ever seemed interested in you in a romantic way?
You should have said something to him a long time ago, now you need to back off and let this play out with your friend.
2007-01-11 09:51:28 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have told your friend (the girl) that you liked him. It may be kinda weird to tell her now. I would either tell her and hope that she understands and backs off from him or I would let it go all together and keep them both as friends b/c there are other fish in the sea but good friends are hard to come by.
2007-01-11 09:13:09 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, i would tell him anyways. You never know, he might be holding off on this girl because he likes you. You never really know untill you ask. But be prepared to maybe lose your girl friend.. she may not understand, but if she is a real friend, she would understand and move on. Either way there will be drama. I mean, how are you gonna feel if they do start going out and you have to sit at dinner with them and watch them FLIRT and KISS... ugh
2007-01-11 09:11:57 · answer #7 · answered by lindsay g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you already told your friend you would hook them up. You sound like you might be young. If nothing else let them see what happens, and most likely they won't be together forever. Then down the road you can tell your friend down the road that you really liked him, but you didn't want to admit it at the time. Then try to date him
2007-01-11 09:13:10 · answer #8 · answered by CASSONDRA D 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It depends who is more important to you, your friend or this guy. If I were you I would sit down with your friend and tell her the truth before saying anything to this guy. Maybe you and your friend could then come to an agreement that would make you both feel comfortable.
2007-01-11 09:13:44 · answer #9 · answered by beautifulhappysam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't ignore your true feelings for him. You could either wait it out and see how long it lasts or you could tell him how you really feel. I think you should talk to your friend about it before you tell him how you feel because it could get ugly.
2007-01-11 09:13:48 · answer #10 · answered by LarsMonson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋