I like this boy for a very long time but i have never told him because i think he would just see me as a friend. Today, my friend told me that she liked him and if i could hook them two up. I said, yeah,so i told him that she liked him and he said he would have to get to know her before, he goes out with her and he likes her too. I dont know if i should still tell him that i like him? So please help people!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-11 09:06:53 · 12 answers · asked by Lovely 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I remember back in high school I used to have a crush on a guy named Jon, he was sooooo perfect for me, we came to school countless times wearing clothes that looked the same, we drew pictures that looked the same and we even finished each others sentences. We were best friends back then and I loved that guy for three years and never said a word. He had hinted around to me asking him out too but I was so convenced he didn't think that way towards me that I never seen the signs till I was older.
Point is, is that a friend of mine who knew I liked him went after him because I never said anything, I was so upset that I moved away. I never seen or heard from them again.
It's quite possible that he likes you and you don't realize it. you'll never know till you say something. You can't lose anything, if he doesn't like you that way then the embarrasment will pass in a couple weeks and you will stay friends. If he does like you, then you will know that too.
10 years later and I still think about jon and what could have been.
Everything works in life at it's own pace and in it's own order. Just try to live life without regrets.
2007-01-11 09:25:47 · answer #1 · answered by lividsorrow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't told your friend that you like this boy, don't tell him that you like him. Because that'd be cruel to your friend. It's probably too late to do anything. Besides, you already told your friend you would hook the two of them up, and it wouldn't be nice to interfere and break your word. Right? =)
2007-01-11 09:19:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have told him before your friend told you. Or you should have told your friend when she asked you to "hook them up." If they stay together then you'll be glad you didn't tell him. If they break up, wait a little bit, then ask your friend if it's okay with her if you let him know how you feel. You had your chance.
2007-01-11 09:11:46 · answer #3 · answered by ojibwechik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you should have done is if u consider your friend a true and genuine friend is tell her that u like the guy also and u think none of u should date him in spite of the friendship,telling her that u would set them up,your only leading yourself in a very difficult position if and when they do hook up you are going to be one jealous friend and this may even lead to the breaking up of your friendship.i dont think u should tell him how u feel ,he will think that u are trying to get between them ,he may even say something to your friend and all hell can break loose , if u are going to loose your friend dont loose her over a guy.
2007-01-11 09:25:07 · answer #4 · answered by leecy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Choices...choices.
It seems like you are a good friend, knowing you like him, you still told your friend you will hook her up. (everybody needs a friend like you).
Leave it for what it is and even if they break up...you don't want your friend's sloppy seconds/left overs.
Just look at it like this, everything happens for a reason. You might not know what it is right now....but the choices we make today....has always something to do with the future.
Again it is all up to you....friend or no friend....alway ask yourself this question first....what if it was me.....
2007-01-11 09:26:16 · answer #5 · answered by chalieann 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have already told your friend that you like him.
I don't know what kind of points you would get for telling him now that you liked him, unless he thinks that "friend" is you.
I wouldn't do anything for now, just tell your friend you feel uncomfortable about relaying messages for her. And she should be doing the telling anyway, not you.
2007-01-11 09:14:35 · answer #6 · answered by liquidblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you liked him Why did you hug him up with your friend. wise up next time if you like the boy. don't give them to your friends. grab them for your self. If you are to shy to tell them how you feel, get to know them first by inviting them maybe for a coke with you or else let them know you care.by starting talks with them where ever
2007-01-11 09:33:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have told her that you would hook them up
2007-01-11 09:20:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him how you feel if not later on it will be to late and he and the other friend may get serious and you will be left in the cold!!! so you really need to tell him how you feel you have nothing to lose!!!
2007-01-11 09:14:37 · answer #9 · answered by BlessedMommyof3.. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have just told your friend
to do it herself
2007-01-11 09:19:30 · answer #10 · answered by UH-MAN-DUH!! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋