Why is it that making love with another person besides youre love one feels much better?
2007-01-11 09:02:56 · 20 answers · asked by biglilone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
its just like trying something new all first time fun with new friend allways has that excitement about it where being with the one you love for awile we get use to love with that person its allso saying that all people are diffrent in life so shering love and fun with someone new allways has that feel about it its diffrent and new.
2007-01-11 09:18:59 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am not going to say that you are unique, but usually most people say that the sex is better if you love someone. I'm guessing that you like feeling someone new and unknown. Its probably not better, just different.
2007-01-11 09:18:30 · answer #2 · answered by DevonChaos 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For us it doesn't. We have been swingers for several years and I can unequivocally tell you that sex with my wife is far different than sex with others. Sex with others isn't better, it's just different. Sex without love is merely healthy exercise. Sex between my wife and I is soul sex. It is the kind of sex that makes you mushy and emotional. It's the kind of sex that afterward you feel like you can't get close enough to them, even if you could crawl inside them. It's the kind of sex that makes your mind think "all is right with the world, if just for this one moment." That, I don't get anywhere else.
I think that if sex with someone other than your spouse "feels" better, than there is more at issue here than just getting-off. There is a huge emotional chasm between you and your wife. Thus you are confusing the excitement of "getting some strange" with love.
2007-01-11 09:10:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Because you're not really in love with your "love one". Besides that, people are excited with the new and that brings more pleasure.
2007-01-11 09:09:33 · answer #4 · answered by Bridget W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Caused you dont have expectation to another person. While with your love one, you expect them in a certain way and that took out the fun of it.
2007-01-11 09:41:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Apparently, those having an affair feel that way. I guess it is because you are cheating, the thrill of meeting and not getting caught and so on. Doesn't last though
2007-01-11 09:09:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one thing you got your words mixed up...it's not making love when you do it with someone you don't love......it's just plain sex (well not plain but you get the idea). I believe its better because of the risk factor involve.
2007-01-11 09:21:24 · answer #7 · answered by kitcat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personality disorder?
Seriously, you appear to revel in being bad. Unimpressive. The question you should ask is who your SO is having sex with other than you and how you feel about that.
2007-01-11 09:08:57 · answer #8 · answered by Pugilist 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think "having sex" might feel better with someone new - but "making love" is best when you love someone.
2007-01-11 09:15:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because you are not making love but having sex. there's a difference.
2007-01-11 09:09:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋