I don't have a problem with her exploring because I know how much she enjoy the fantasy and how passionate it makes her. I'm curious if there is any advice about this situation or women that have been through this and can give me advice? I'm open for emails also.
2007-01-11 08:55:37 · 11 answers · asked by Jeff S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sex is sex whether biSEXual or heteroSEXual...would you let her get with a guy? Really think this through and make sure you are okay with her being sexually intimate with another. Also, you may be concerned that this turns into more than experimenting and becomes a regular thing...will you be left out?
2007-01-11 09:04:52 · answer #1 · answered by KB 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Be supportive but you both have to work out some rules. I've been through this and I wish you both all the luck in the world because it's something that is actually very hard to do. Be careful as there are a lot of 'game players' out there. The best option would be for your wife to casually discuss this with a female friend (hey, my husband told me the other night he wants to have a 3some) and see what the friend thinks...she's either going to go for it or laugh at your wife...you never know :)
2007-01-11 09:06:42 · answer #2 · answered by colleenjohn_vano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your her husband does that mean any thing to you your going to allow your wife to participate in a homosexual act with another woman OK you have no respect for you self or your wife dogs don,t do what you are about to let your wife do you don,t no your place as head of your house if you would let your wife do this then where does it stop is she a sex object or your help mate everyone has fantasy and that is what they are fantasy did you and your wife talk about this befor you got married
2007-01-11 10:05:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if your wife is wanting to fulfill a fantasy, it should be with you and not with another woman. Seriously, sir, what are you doing that is not pleasing her? If you want to make her happy, tell her to share her fantasy with you and only you and not another woman because if she shares it with another woman, then she is really being a selfish, narcissistic, egotistical jerk and a manipulative whore to you. She is also being insensitive to YOUR feelings AND she is telling you that being with you is not good enough for her and that she does not want to be with you because she really wants to be with the women because, apparently, you must either be not enough man for her to handle or too much man for her to handle in her life. Anyone who argues with me is a narrow minded, pot calling the kettle black hypocrite, probably has a pornography website out there, does not respect their bodies, minds, and lives, let alone has a truly open or intelligent mind, thrives on arrogance, egotism, selfishness, self-indulgence, self-gratification, has low self-esteem and self-esteem issues in their lives, has problems with their self-image and their sense of worthiness about themselves in life, do not feel good about themselves in life, desires to manipulate, deceive, and lie to people, and has appeared on Howard Stern, Jerry Springer, Ricki Lake, or some other sleazy talk show or news program, not to mention that they are just plain closet whores.
Enough said.
Sincerely,
Jesse Long
Keeping it real since 1980.
2007-01-11 09:54:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haven't you ever seen that episode of Friends when Ross is supposed to have a threesome with his wife? Whatever you two decide, you both need to agree to some rules and you both need to stick to them, or it will get out of hand and someone might get hurt.
2007-01-11 09:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by Aunie Stina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't have any expectations. Fantasy and reality are different, whatever she may have fantasized about, what actually happens will be different. Also, don't let it come between you. Make it clear, her girlfriend is fine and welcome and all that, but you're the husband and you need to come first. On the same note, try to be reasonable, and let her out of commitments with you for her girlfriend when you can.
2007-01-11 09:05:04 · answer #6 · answered by Sean J 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course you want to be supportive, you are hoping that she brings home a girl you like too so the three of you can do the hanky panky. That's slick dude much props to you!
2007-01-11 09:00:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish my wife had the same passion for exploration. You are one lucky man.
2007-01-11 09:33:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to lose your wife to someone that munches carpet better than you do!
Good Job!
2007-01-11 09:11:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u might possibly want to turn this into a threesome so u are not left completely out of the link
2007-01-11 09:16:16 · answer #10 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋