I found out from reading it on her myspace page. What should I do about it?
2007-01-11 08:41:43 · 11 answers · asked by sanj 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I would have to say that she was more concerned with making sure her family knew and the father of the baby knew and his family. Don't take it personal. Sometimes it's hard to tell some friends. A reaction that you might give might scare her away from telling you. Just remember she must be happy for this and not to let your own personal doubts overshadow what she is going through.
2007-01-11 09:48:24 · answer #1 · answered by cargrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being pregnant and deciding who to tell first is something very personal, I have told many people that are not my closest friends, and are waiting untill I have made it past 12 weeks until I tell my family and best friends? Why you ask because they are the people that are closest to me, and the chances of loosing the baby within the first 12 weeks are very high, so I don't want to tell them and if I loose it then they get their hopes up or worry for nothing. You should just be there for her, you can approach her if you like, but I am sure once she feels the time is right to tell you she will, don't feel offended she didn't tell you I am sure there are many reasons as to why and that she has alot of insecurities and worries in her mind like now, as with any first time mum. be patient and stand by her as a friend
Best of luck
2007-01-11 08:47:47 · answer #2 · answered by jazyj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, first ask yourself have you been a good friend lately or did she have reason to feel that you might not be interested. there could be a few reasons why, but if you to are very close i would confront her and flat out ask her why she didn't let you know. if your not really that close why sweat it, she maybe thought you weren't interested or that she knew you would read her myspace page. you'll never know unless you ask right??
2007-01-11 08:46:34 · answer #3 · answered by emery_sage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i put it up on myspace as a bulletin when i first found out. of course i added a note to not tell my husbands parents.
anyways if you guys are really close don't say anything to her about it. maybe she did something the same like me and will tell you in person. wait it out and if she doesn't tell you in words let her know it hurt but congratulate her.
2007-01-11 09:38:43 · answer #4 · answered by LaRae L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to figure out how you can be supportive of her.
maybe she was afraid to tell yoou.
maybe the myspace page is her way of telling people.
some folks are embarrassed to say it in person.
instead of feeling hurt or slighted, think about how you
can help your friend through this time.
2007-01-11 08:49:30 · answer #5 · answered by BonesofaTeacher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she isn't ready to tell her close friends yet. Sometimes it easier to tell perfect strangers something personal than friends. Let her come to you when she is ready.
2007-01-11 08:57:09 · answer #6 · answered by Terry Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be happy for her and start buying baby presents and planning a baby shower!! she probably had her reasons for not telling her, but she will definitely need your support now, so try to just put it behind you.
2007-01-11 08:49:00 · answer #7 · answered by Karen H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her congratulation. Do not fan the flames.
2007-01-11 08:52:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean......"what should I do about it"?
What can you do? So she didn't tell you, who said she had to? I have family members who probably don't know yet. I didn't call everyone....I didn't know I had to!
2007-01-11 08:59:11 · answer #9 · answered by Mommy of 2 Boys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask and if she is young then i suggest telling an adult and hoping she is healthy
2007-01-11 08:44:58 · answer #10 · answered by Lynnette 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋