I am a 23 year old guy. I'm very skinny, I have 172 cm height, 57 kilograms.
Please give me honest answers.
Thank you.
2007-01-11 08:39:47 · 36 answers · asked by honestman23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
"Why not hold out until you find someone to marry?" someone wrote to me...
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What don't you understand when I say that they don't like me? If I'll ever marry, which I can't know, I'll marry when I'll be at least 27 years old... And the girl that I would want to marry would be imbarassed if I would be a virgin at that age...
2007-01-11 11:27:42 · update #1
It is up to you to decide that, not us. Here are some things to think about though:
1. You can't paint women with a broad brush. There is no such thing as a "normal woman". If you want to find ONE that likes you, you will.
2. Paying for sexual favors gets you just that. It will not get you a relationship.
3. What is it you want? A relationship? A sex partner? To experience sex once?
4. PLEASE PLEASE if you pay someone, be safe. Don't get an STD! And don't get in legal trouble.
5.Again, decide right or wrong for YOURSELF, not based on what society tells you (even US at Yahoo Answers).
2007-01-11 08:48:36 · answer #1 · answered by clueless_nerd 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think it is wrong, because whores are living milking machines not a RELATIONSHIP to be proud of.
People generally need relationships to feel good, to be proud, to mature, and learn to relate to the world.
Spend your money at the gym.
My best advice is to change your bait. If you want to have a normal relationship with a normal woman, even to have children or a home one day, don't sell out just for sex.
Learn to eat right, exercise to develop your body. Stay out of drugs and alcohol. Read, go to museums, and shops to develop your mind. Hang out with people at work and LISTEN!
Go to where the women you want to be with hang out. See the kind of guys they like, and model yourself after them.
I am not suggesting you stalk anyone, or become someone else.
I'm suggesting you learn give-and-take.
Don't give up on yourself, and say I'm just skinny and abnormal, so I will go to whores for sex. You aren't done developing yourself. There is someone out there just right for you. She may be skinny and abnormal, too. Or tall and shy. Who knows.
You can do this. You can meet a girl and fall in love, just like anyone else. You can have children or a home.
You need a little confidence and a life of your own. Interests other than your wanker.
Someone is looking for YOU! Good luck!
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2007-01-11 09:11:11 · answer #2 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should look for a non "normal" woman, there is no reason why it would be impossible for you to find someone. I would shy away from the whores (I'm assuming you mean an actual woman you pay to have sex with) simply for the health and legality reasons. What would really suck, would be if you contracted an STD, and then met someone special after. Try Internet dating, meet someone who is first intrigued by your personality if you're self conscious about your appearance.
2007-01-11 08:49:44 · answer #3 · answered by pibb 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you worry a girl would be embarrassed, then she's probably not worth having. You need someone to accept you for who you are. There are plenty of girls that would want to marry a guy who is a virgin. I can't say it's a good idea to pay for sex. Think of all the diseases you could expose yourself to.
2007-01-19 02:17:46 · answer #4 · answered by kittymimm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's always good to be in a two people relationship not one on 102. Besides, your asking to get a couple of STD's from her, you know. Don't give up sooo easy, there are a lot of women who like skinny guys.At least you got a shot at not being fat when you get older. Good luck, one more thing condoms are not 100 percent effective.
2007-01-11 08:54:40 · answer #5 · answered by mdzevolveddammit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean prostitues right
Its not only wrong its illegal come on now man
God has made someone on this earth for each of us, you want find them they will find you. Until then spend your time doing something productive. Life isnt always about sex dang it lolol
But if u feel u really need some remember to ask the prostitue if shes a cop and then you want go to jail
Thats called entrapment if they turn out to be one lolol
Good Luck with that though
2007-01-11 08:46:08 · answer #6 · answered by Queen of Da Trill 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The person you seek will only appear when you stop looking!
I would get some practice in before hand though! Just don't get hooked on the hookers!! Or you could watch porn - 101 sex positions is a great movie - helped me get new moves!!
And there is no such thing as a NORMAL woman, we are all different and different things turn us on. You would be surprised!!
http://www.amazon.com/Sex-101-Positions-Spice-Randi/dp/1592581110
2007-01-18 22:18:43 · answer #7 · answered by leigh M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong to take part in an industry that exploits women who don't have many other options besides being used and abused for their body. It's also dangerous in two ways... One-you may catch a STD and some are not cureable. Two-you could get arrested since it is illegal in most places. There are women who may not have men chasing after them either so try to go online and met someone who is in the same position as you. There is someone for everyone out there, it's a big world.
2007-01-11 08:44:57 · answer #8 · answered by Me 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
It's totally your choice. Why don't "normal" women like you ? If you need to be with a woman, and this is the only way, do it. Be careful though, there's STD's out there, and think about how many men she's been with. Good luck ~~~
2007-01-11 08:48:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As far I'm concerned, its not. But others will have different opinions. You should post a question telling us why want to do this. There has to be a woman out there for you somewhere. Just be careful if you choose to go with a whore.
2007-01-11 08:44:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋