Do you know what you're going to do after getting married? Does your potential spouse agree with that? Do you agree with his after-marriage plans? Are they good plans?
If the answer to any of the above questions is "no" then the two of you need to go for couples counseling. Good luck.
If the answer to all of the above questions is "yes" then... hey! Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! Good luck!
2007-01-11 09:11:48
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answered by Anonymous
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When I was seventeen I didn't think it was too young. I was head over heels with some guy and wanted to get married... he went to jail before that happened though, lol! (yeah he was a real keeper)
Now that I'm 36 I think OMG what was I thinking. I think at seventeen you have grown up a lot, but still have a LONG way to go and a LOT to learn about life and how the world operates. Marriages at that age have been known to last, sure, but why make it so much harder on yourself? You'll change so much by the time you hit 20 and more again by the time you're 25. What you want at 17 may be nothing like what you'll want when you're 25. Enjoy the freedom of not having to live at home and not having to live for someone else while you can. Plenty of time to get married in your 20s, or even 30s.
2007-01-11 08:46:39
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answered by Jadalina 5
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particular, i think of you're too youthful! stay existence a sprint and no remember if it is meant to be, it is going to be. i'm 30 and have been given married at 22 and each so often i think of I married too youthful. My husband and that i began out residing mutually as quickly as we've been 20. i admire my husband, yet each and every so often I choose I had held out a sprint longer. looking returned to whilst i replaced into 17...i in my opinion, relatively believed i replaced into an grownup and that i knew precisely what i wanted out of existence. I dated a similar guy for many of my previous due young infants and thought i wanted to marry him. i did no longer. and that i'm grateful for that! We grew as much as be completely diverse human beings. provide it some years and once you're meant to be, you would be married! between now and then, purely have exciting. Marriage is confusing artwork and could be considered an entire life dedication, do no longer take it gently!
2016-10-07 00:26:46
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answered by ? 4
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YES!! You need to see what else is out there and find and understand who you are and what you need in a partner. I don't think this is possible till your mid to late twenties. In the world we now live in, marriages have an extremely HIGH divorce rate, young marriages even higher. Give yourself time to grow as a person, enjoy your youth so you have no regrets later in life.:)
2007-01-11 08:44:45
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answered by Tiffanie F 2
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yes - don't throw your life away - I almost made the same mistake, but instead, I got to finish school and now I live for me. Own place, car etc...I think anything before 25 is too young
your chances of getting divorced will be much higher
2007-01-11 09:36:29
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answered by dolitza 2
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Yes. I think 25 is almost to young to be married.
2007-01-11 08:42:13
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answered by Laura 5
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Not really, but you should definitly wait a little. I mean getting married is only a legal tie. It doesn't mean you love your significant other any more/less. I was gonna marry my ex when she turned 18, but well she's my ex now. Life is full of uncertainties. Be carefull
2007-01-11 08:40:20
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answered by flamemaster_lang 3
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Me, Personally... Yes! I married at 20. Even that was alittle to young. Have fun, find out who you really are. You have plenty of time ...
2007-01-11 08:41:44
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answered by Mad's MOM 1
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Yes. I was 22, and still way to much a boy. I didn't know anything, and hadn't given myself a chance to learn anything.
2007-01-11 08:42:35
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answered by guitar teacher 3
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too young
live your life have fun
if you do it you will regret it when you are 30
2007-01-11 08:44:40
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answered by drdoowopp2 3
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