there is this guy that i love. i love everything about him. how do i get his attention so he will love me too?
2007-01-11 08:27:59 · 18 answers · asked by teneekambuys 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
we do kinda know each other we sit next to eachother in a couple of classes
2007-01-11 08:46:36 · update #1
we do talk and joke to eachother and we sit by eachother in like 3 classes but i dont know how to pass it to him that i really would do anything for him.
2007-01-11 08:51:10 · update #2
This can be difficult, you have to first find out from him or other people what he really likes and show interest by first talking about it and maybe secondly doing it with him. Get to know his hangouts and what he likes to do and pursue him. Do nice things for him, say nice things to him. Tell him that you would like to be his girl friend and of course, very important give him not only praise, give him sex on demand, anytime he is horny honey and I will guarntee you will have him for life. If he is worth his salt, he will return everything and more to you my dear. good luck
2007-01-11 08:41:17 · answer #1 · answered by Bruce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. You may not like this, but I'll be honest, anyway.
First of all, you DON'T love this guy. You don't even know him. You may love how he looks or smells or talks, but if he doesn't know that you exist, then you two don't have an actual relationship, and you can't know him well enough to actually love him. What you love is the idea of him, or his image. You've got a crush.
If you honestly want to have a real relationship with this person, it's going to start by abandoning your fantasy of him and understanding that he's a real person with faults, just like everyone else. He gets sick sometimes, he gets cranky sometimes, he acts like a jerk sometimes, just like everyone else. If you can accept that, then just arrange to be in a place where he is, and casually strike up a normal, every day conversation. Start small. Just a few words that'll make him smile, then get out of there and let it set. The next time, it'll be easier to talk.
But ya know what? Crushes are really under rated. They are the perfect no input, high return relationship. I mean, you could get to feel giddy and happy every time you see him, without ever having to risk a thing by actually initiating contact and risking being disappointed by who he actually is. So, decide what you actually want, him or the idea of him, and just go make it happen for yourself.
Good luck.
2007-01-11 16:38:10 · answer #2 · answered by Vix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try talking to him and becoming his friend... and do not ever tell him you love him until the time is right, because the word "love" for some reason scares alot of guys away... but do not ever not tell him. If he blows you off maybe you should rethink your love for him, and maybe you should move on and maybe find a another guy that could actually love you back, and that could love you back like you want to be loved.
2007-01-11 16:32:32 · answer #3 · answered by IluvthisBoy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cannot make somebody love you, you can try and get his attention, but if he's not interested then there's nothing else to do but to move on. It's a painful lesson, but sometimes we can't have what we want, and sometimes what we want is not what's best for us. There's a guy out there for you who will have reciprocal feelings
2007-01-11 16:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by Frank the tank 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not love, it's lust. You have to know someone to really truly love them. I assume that since he does not know you exist, you probably don't even talk to him, which means you don't know him. Be brave, go up to him and say "HI" if he's interested in what he sees, he will probably start up conversation.
2007-01-11 16:32:17 · answer #5 · answered by Boricua Chic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You say "He's not the only pebble on the beach" and move on. You can't possibly LOVE, I mean LOVE him if you don't know him. And it sure sounds like you don't know him, since he doesn't pay any attention to you.
2007-01-11 16:30:50 · answer #6 · answered by MOM KNOWS EVERYTHING 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ah unrequited love. The age old pain. You talk to him, of course. Whether or not he ends up loving you is another question all together.
2007-01-11 16:34:23 · answer #7 · answered by JB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him... Concentrate on someone who does know you exist. This guy might be a real asshole, and their is no sense wasting time and energy on someone who doesn't pay attention to you.
2007-01-11 16:31:36 · answer #8 · answered by JarJarBinks 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a b.j. usually helps- no just kidding- talk to him, be yourself and he will realize- if not then it's not meant to be sorry- I was in your situation, and it didnt work out for me, but i let him string me along for a # of years until i finally said no more- i keep hoping and your just not ever going to be mine- so now I have no more contact at all
2007-01-11 16:32:21 · answer #9 · answered by shannon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's not love, that's a crush. to get his attention, try talking to him. that's usually a good start.
2007-01-11 16:30:50 · answer #10 · answered by Gray 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋