2007-01-11 08:26:08 · 14 answers · asked by Love me now boyz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Mourn if you want...be sorry if you want...if you were close, go to the funeral. Cry if you need to....if he was special to you in any way make sure the rest of the family knows it. Tell them what kind of things you liked about him, how he made you feel. If you have an Aunt(his wife) and cousins (their kids) make sure they are comforted. Help out at their house. They need a lot of support now. Remember he was a living being...Talk about him and his life, it may seem hard, but if you do it in a nice, easy, funny manner, it will get everyone talking and feeling better.
It's not a good thing to ignore the passing of a life, no matter what or who it is...
2007-01-11 08:33:24 · answer #1 · answered by Chrys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how close you were. I dont really understand what kind of advice you want. I am sorry for your loss and when my uncle passed i drank a bottle of schnapps and sang his fav songs.
2007-01-11 08:30:00 · answer #2 · answered by troys_wifey2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray or meditate and remember the good times. Cry if you must, it is OK, because after all you will not see this person physically anymore. But I would ask that if he had an illness, such as Cancer, Aids or something like that, thank GOD that he is not in any pain anymore. My condolences.
2007-01-11 08:31:43 · answer #3 · answered by notnew2U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reflect on the good times that you had with him and share those times with your family. My grandmother used to ask me this question when faced with death. "when going to a rose garden, what do you pick, the thorns or the roses?" Obviously you pick the roses. God picked himself a rose, because he didn't want the thorns! He is in a much better place now, he is better off than we are here on earth!
2007-01-11 08:32:05 · answer #4 · answered by Jess 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for your loss, if he was married, console your aunt, and depending on how close you were, your heart will tell you what to do. God Bless.
2007-01-11 08:30:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry for your loss, get off yahoo answers and go spend some time with your family they probably need the company
2007-01-11 08:29:10 · answer #6 · answered by N8t!^3 B@ll@ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the funeral, send flowers and wear black and also send a letter of condolce. Thats it.
2007-01-11 08:30:19 · answer #7 · answered by Bruce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cry, remember the good times, then move on with life. One day, we all will die.
2007-01-11 08:29:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Other than grieving his loss & helping other family members
to grieve........there isn't really anything tha you can do.
Just remember him.
I am really sorry about your loss.
2007-01-11 08:31:40 · answer #9 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Console your Aunt (if there is one) and cousins.
2007-01-11 08:29:13 · answer #10 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋