is there any harm in having anal sex?.. my boyfriends wants to try it but i dont know if i should yet
2007-01-11 08:08:51 · 29 answers · asked by LaDy A 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Go for it! Too many people are "uptight" about this subject. Make sure you have lots of lubrication and relax.
2007-01-11 08:12:24 · answer #1 · answered by Jenn 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
LMAO sorry I'm not laughing at you just the general view in my head all the sudden. It is FINE to have it, but I will tell you this, it will probably not feel the best the first few times, it takes awhile to adjust to and You need to use an OIL based lubricant if you are not using protection and if you ARE using protection (condoms) you need a water based but it wears off after awhile and needs reapplied. They have stuff called Anal Ease etc....that has numbing agents to help you assist in getting comfortable. I'd suggest trying an internet search on safe anal sex you should find suggestions for legitimate sites to look at. Also, I suggest breathing techniques to help you relax cause if you tense up the harder it is to do and get used to and it'll hurt more.
2007-01-11 16:13:22 · answer #2 · answered by Rhi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can tear the lining of the anus if you aren't careful. I'm not up-to-date on all the technical terms. This is why most people will tell you to use plenty of lubricant and to go slow. In other words, if it hurts, don't do it!
Definitely insist on a condom. Just because you can't get pregnant this way doesn't mean you can't still gets STD's. The anus is not used to having things inserted.
As long as you are comfortable with the idea or curious, go ahead and try it. Just be sure it's something you want. In other words, if you are doing this to please him, you won't be relaxed and you won't enjoy it. In fact, you might even feel dirty.
If you notice any blood afterward, you'll want to wait awhile before trying again as something may be torn.
Finally, as long as it's something you both are curious about and you are patient with one another, it can be a fun way to spice up the relationship. If you have any doubts, however, I'd wait.
2007-01-11 16:20:54 · answer #3 · answered by jenn_jenn02 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is OK to have anal sex as long as you don't feel any pain not to often just once in a while, but make sure you put some lubricant first.
2007-01-11 16:19:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no harm in having anal sex. It's normal to be kind of scared since you don't know what to suspect, Just relax it's going to hurt at first, but the more you do it things will get easier for you both.
Tips.....................
**Relax
**Use lots of oils / ointments
**Do not let your boyfriend insert his p**is into your vagina after it comes out of your rear. This can cause a serious infection.
**Enjoy yourself
2007-01-11 16:37:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No harm if done right. You just can't start though, it takes time. Have him start with a pinkie, then a regular finger, lastly a thumb. When your ready have a lot of lube and go SLOW, you control the pace. If you just dive in with out being ready then you can have serious issues with tearing and such. Remember just relax and take it slow and easy, you might even have a larger orgasm this way.
2007-01-11 16:14:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he Gay? Sounds like it! It's bad for your health. You will end up with micro tears in the area around your anus. You could end up with blood poisoning or an infection.... not to mention the discomfort of damage in that area. You could also end up with hemmoroids which are very painful. YOu get all the pain, he gets all the gain. When will the playing field between men and women become equal!
2007-01-11 16:15:54 · answer #7 · answered by skipdip 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try it if, and when you are ready. If you become ready to try, be certain that much time is spent on getting your sphincter relaxed. This is best done with his tongue and fingers with lots of lubricant. If you are relaxed, you will open up like a flower. He may then enter but slowly being very aware of your comfort at all times.
2007-01-11 16:14:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there can be if there isn't enough lube, if it's not feeling good for you, if he gets too rough, and if it hurts then that's a sign to stop right away. pain is your bodies way of letting you know when something's not right. if you try it and like it then by all means keep goin for it but if after a couple times you don't like then it's obviously not for you. just remember you need to be turned on all the way before he tries to stick it in that spot.
2007-01-11 16:36:25 · answer #9 · answered by Hailstorm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts like hell the 1st time..But if you don't like just tell him NO & if he really cares about you he should undertand. I do suggest a lot of lubrication & dont let him put it afterwards into your vagina because it can give u an infecion.
2007-01-11 17:15:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋