Lately, our sexual attraction for each other has been disappearing. I wanted to know some things to do or say that would turn him on and get that fire back into our relationship.
2007-01-11 08:02:57 · 12 answers · asked by Palyn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Start all over from the beginning. Treat him the way you used to when you thought the world revolved around him and would just die without him near. Be excited again to see him when he gets home, dress attractively (even provocatively), feed him well, then go at it like it was the first time again! Have fun!
2007-01-11 08:40:36 · answer #1 · answered by peacemaker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hen your having sex is all about you... Does he get to just lay there and be pleasured. Maybe hes just tired of doing all the work. Have you gained weight, or are you already a large woman. Around 40 some of use just lose that extra drive, yes there are many drugs that could put us back in the game. Age has a lot to do with it, we start losing testosterone. Best way is to ask him, but be prepared for posibble kinky response
2007-01-11 08:16:07 · answer #2 · answered by gimlost2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can start by getting a makeover.
get a manicure and pedicure
a new hair color and style
lose weight
get a tan
go to MAC and get your makeup done
buy sexy bra and panties
a sexy but sophisticated dress
stilettos
dinner reservations
hotel reservations
and you ll be set.
give yourself a month to lose 15 pounds and then do all of those things.
make sure you wear jewelry because when you get naked you ll still have a touch of sexiness to you. a couple of necklaces in different lengths and chandelier earrings go a long way.
2007-01-11 08:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you been spending time together other than showing up in bed at the end of the day? Try and touch his hand,rub his back,flirt a little bit thru out the course of the day....dress a little differently,more flattering than usual and kinda sashay by like, hey,cowboy....whatever drew him to you back in the day,revisit that and work it out a little bit....kiss the bathroom mirror in lipstick and write i want you...wear a lacy thong,or nothin at all....you know what he likes, just do it.
2007-01-11 08:15:51 · answer #4 · answered by justsayin... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away.....life is a distraction...things to do, routines to get stuck in. Ask him to keep a certain date opened because you have a surprise for him. He will love the mystery. If you have kids, find someone to keep them and go to dinner and get a hotel. Tell him how much you love him, how much you want him and then have your way with him. Make it last, don't do a quicky, tease, play have fun with it! Good Luck!!
2007-01-11 08:11:57 · answer #5 · answered by KB 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, pray that you will become more attractive to him while he simultaneously finds you attractive. Secondly, buy some lingerie and some really nice perfume and wear it to bed. One of my friends took lesson on how to perform a strip tease and it worked out really well for her.
2007-01-11 08:12:02 · answer #6 · answered by J L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Loose weight
2007-01-11 08:10:30 · answer #7 · answered by rm4real 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What did you do to get him the first time?
2007-01-11 09:56:07 · answer #8 · answered by ღ♥ஐcookie1ஐ♥ღ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it doggy style and pretend he is someone else
2007-01-11 08:15:44 · answer #9 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you care about him and whisper in his ear that he is sexy & you love him... then use your imagination!
2007-01-11 08:38:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋