I always wanted to know about the girls that do internet porn. Do they have families? Do they think that they might regret in the future something that cannot be erased? What is in their head? I believe everybody comes across porn sometimes. By choice or not. But I have seen families break down because of it. It seems that always someone is hurt. What about the girls? Why do they like to expose themselves like that? There is no return once u r on the web. Is so hard for women to earn respect and this does not help at all.
2007-01-11 08:00:03 · 19 answers · asked by Cister 7 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
They are literally prostitutes....they do it for the money to get drugs or to feed their kids or to survive until tomorrow. The really stupid ones fool themselves into believing it is a legitimate door to the movies. Traci Lords actually managed to do that, but she represents an EXTREMELY small minority.
Respect or respectability is not high on these girls' priority list. Eating and/or getting high, is.
Because there is so much porn produced now, it is old and no longer in demand in just a few years, even if it is good. So...being an actor in a porn video is not necessarily a forever decision. As we age, we look different. If they are serious about leaving that life behind, they can have some plastic surgery to alter their appearance. Porn stars never use their real names and any prospective future serious relationship can be saved with a denial that that person is them. No quality guy would be discussing pornography with any girl he was thinking seriously about. So...the decision to work in pornography is not a decision that you cannot correct later. Nevertheless, it is not a wise decision. It rates with prostitution in its various forms, but the recovery period after quitting, is 3-5 years because of the residual evidence that exists in DVD collections and websites. Teenagers that open themselves to porn stardom are making a very stupid decision because their value on websites lasts longer than older women.
Pornography and its long term effects on people and society as a whole is much more serious than most people realize. We live in a society that values its freedom of expression. This form of expression is not something we are proud of, but it is tame compared to the genre in Asia, Northern Europe and Germany where porn laws are even more liberal than ours. In those countries prostitution is legal and regulated, and because of that, the stigma is less serious than here.
2007-01-11 08:22:38 · answer #1 · answered by Ralph the Sage 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, the reason is that it is a very easy way to earn money without any type of documentation or taxes. An internet porn site really has no significant expenses except the cost of hiring girls, so they can shell out $500-$1000 to a girl looking to make a quick buck. And a lot of the girls that go on these sites have been hurt in some way, or have no other means to support themselves in a significant way, and may not have any family ties at all. If you want this to change, come up with a clean way of making $3,000 a week for little or no work.
2007-01-11 08:08:44 · answer #2 · answered by kaputt_18 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some probaly do like to be "seen" and love the attention. Some may have had the best upbringings with both parents and lots of love and family time and maybe that is just what they want to do. I think many girls feel that they have no other way to make a great living and they LOVE the money. Perhaps they were turned out at a young age and do not know how to get out. Many girls are young and impressionable and maybe do not know better. Some are just that comfortable with their bodies. I have seen interview with "stars" and some are married with children and their families know and think nothing is wrong. Others were caught up at a very young age for whatever the reason, run a way to broken home to raped, and they just can not leave the money or feel they have nothing else to offer because they feel who is going to take me seriously after reading my resume.
2007-01-11 08:05:25 · answer #3 · answered by S'Rae 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a lot of porn produced in my city, and I've had a few opportunities to be involved. Definitely all the women have either a self-image problem or a money problem. Their reasons for doing it are always pretty sad and/or mercenary. If you don't believe me, read interviews with porn stars like Silvia Saint (she started it because she was living on the street) or Asia Carrera (she had major self-image issues -- she was an overweight, nerdy teenager).
2007-01-11 08:06:19 · answer #4 · answered by Julian A 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
OK one minute some people are not smart enough to do other things...
some people like the money....
some people like the sex......
some people like the rush or getting paid so much by horny idiots wasting their money .....
remember "you ask how do i make my money there are 2 million fools born for every intelligent man " (not my quote but good)
basically fair exchange there is a price for everything on this planet for everything doesn't have to be money but mostly is
ahhhhh what else aahhhh
90% of you people here i guaranteed liars because you all probably watch porn enjoy it and love to judge people that's what i think
and i believe it is a form of art too
back in the day everyone walked around naked
i understand hardcore pron okay that's not art really maybe not to me but hey i watched it lol
ahh what else lets just say this to end it off the same way those movies, magazines are bought easily the people in them are bought easier !!!!!
2007-01-11 08:37:53 · answer #5 · answered by makaveli the don prince 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Two girls from my highschool do their own amateur porn websites, and it's really obvious why. Both the girls are pretty, and had potential, but they had huge family problems and dated all the 'druggie' types in school to get attention. Everyone in our graduating class has seen their websites (word travels fast) and I would be really surprised if their parents weren't aware. If my daughter decided she had to showcase her naked body and pose in degrading vulnerable positions, it would tell me that I had done something drastically wrong in raising her. These girls do have families, but likely don't care what their families think about it. Here is a website that interviews a dozen former porn stars about their feelings:
http://www.oneangrygirl.net/antiporn.html
No emotionally healthy woman who understands her self-worth and realizes that liberation doesn't mean shaking your naked self to gain acceptance of men would be involved in pornography.
2007-01-11 08:26:47 · answer #6 · answered by Julia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing most of them were abused by fathers or uncles or bad boyfreinds or husbands. SO they have no self respect so they don't care who sees it and it seems worth a few hundred or a few thousand.
One more reason for people who abused their kids to feel guilty, and they deserve it.
I DO think some women on their are confident and healthy and know exactly what they are doing, maybe J and Seska for example, I'm guessing its like 10% healthy, 90% abused. And I DO like to look at it. Haven't spent any money on it yet so maybe I don't have to feel guilty. I have rented a few movies though so maybe I'm at fault too.
2007-01-11 08:06:45 · answer #7 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of these folks never learned appropriate boundaries. Lots of different reasons for that. They may have been through abuse where their boundaries weren't respected or may have seen people at home have no boundaries.
I've also seen people "forced" into it - no education, no support, single moms - and they can make $5/hour or $100/hour and then be home with their kids.
2007-01-11 10:56:24 · answer #8 · answered by Shrieking Panda 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well those women have no respect for themselves at all I beleive and in fact many couple suffer from that. But I think they just need attention you At me i have nothing special to offer a guy ill get naked for anyone.
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