it is annoying and hurtful and any comments/answers would be appreciated. thankyou!
2007-01-11 07:53:31 · 14 answers · asked by CARMEN S 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
just try to keep ur secrets and ur private things and dont tell anyone about that
and ignore people who annoying u
2007-01-11 08:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it the way I do.... When someone talks about me they are giving someone else a break for a change.
People that gossip will gossip.
2007-01-11 08:00:45 · answer #2 · answered by e.sillery 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak to the people you think are gossiping directly and tell them how you feel without being accusatory. See if they respect your wishes going forward. If not - it's time for locked lips policy.
2007-01-11 07:58:25 · answer #3 · answered by HomeSweetSiliconValley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them they need to get a more interesting life to focus on them self or they need to pick up a hobby.
If it is hurting your feelings than say something about it. But, if its because they truly care then tell them you are an adult and you could take care or yourself.
2007-01-11 07:59:41 · answer #4 · answered by Shyeeee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to be tripe about this, but get a new family. That is what they do, and they will do it no matter what. Best thing is to give them very little to talk about. And never engage in it your self. Set yourself above that.
Good luck. You have got a hard row to hoe.
B
2007-01-11 07:57:00 · answer #5 · answered by Bacchus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore it all.. brush all the talk off your shoulder. if people observe that you dont care they'll move on to the next victim of gossip. it will all be over soon enough
2007-01-11 07:57:12 · answer #6 · answered by hairspray queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do my best to try to stay away from them. Family can be bothersome at times and when you distance yourself from them then they don't know whats going on in your life therefore they can't discuss anything you at all because the don;t know anything...
2007-01-11 07:58:09 · answer #7 · answered by smartiebc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop leading a lifestyle that generates gossip! But that would be boring......
2007-01-11 07:58:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont involve them with your personal life...keep as much as you can private...you cant stop them from gossiping...but you can give them less to talk about....good luck
2007-01-11 07:57:56 · answer #9 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell them anything like I do. My motto with family is trust noone.
2007-01-11 07:58:35 · answer #10 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋