If you were married would you ever have a separate room?

Question

Would you want to have your own bed and space occasionally? How about should the spouse get sick and not want their germs?

Answer 1

yes, we have that. We also have separate beds and separate blankets. We push the beds together and cuddle all night long but if one of us doesn't feel like it we will sleep in our own beds. No harm done.

Answer 2

A separate room sure for some alone time, a separate room could be a gym in the house, an office, just a TV lounge, but sleeping in separate rooms nah then your marriage has issues. Honey your married get use to sharing germs. Wait until you have kids and they bring all kinds for viruses home, what are you going to do then, spray a can of Lysol disinfectant on them every day they come back from school and burn their clothes.

Answer 3

As years go by, your habits change. Even in very stable couples, with mutual tender affection, pleasures, tastes, comfort feelings might be different. Time to go to bed and wake up. Lights on or of. TV programs. When its warm and when its cold. And others. So why not. You can have separate bedrooms and use them when you feel both are caring for the others welfare. You'll always be able to sleep together when you want to. In cases of sickness, I think couples should sleep together. Who is healthy should care and help who's sick. Worrying about germs sounds selfish. What would happen to us if doctors felt the same way?

Answer 4

I'm married and we sleep in the same bed...when we move into a bigger house I think that if we are sick, we would probably sleep in another room so as not to spread the germs, but right now we don't have that option.

Answer 5

I had a separate bedroom from my ex-husband because the house had five bedrooms and it was upstairs and he didn't want to climb the stairs all the time. I did not love him very much and I hated sleeping with him, so I had my own space. I can't imagine NOT sleeping with my fiance. I would never want a separate room from him - or anything bigger than a queen bed. I love his warmth and touch in the night - germs be damned!

Answer 6

I have been married for almost 7 yrs and we have slept together no matter what... my husband also NEVER gets sick so that's not an issue. If you move to another room because a spouse is sick then that is reasonable, but for "space"... well thats a whole other set of problems that need to be addressed.

Answer 7

married for seven years together for 5 more...we have a spare bedroom that is for guests. It is also utilized when one is sick but only if sick with flu or something like that..not for colds. There is nothing wrong with trying to prevent the other spouse from also getting sick. If both are laid up then who's going to take care of the other???

Answer 8

If im married which i will be in 4 months im gonna want to sleep with him. We live together and i love waking up to see him every morning. If you or your spouse dont like it theirs probably a reason behind it. Thats just weird. Now if my souse gets sick i defanately dont want the germs but i would still sleep next to him. I just wont be making out with him sharing drinks and we try not to breathe on e/o. But i dont think you should leave them hangin in the bed alone. I know when im sick i wanna be taken care of not to be felt like im not loved lol. So just sleep with him whether hes sick or not sick just be a little more cautious and dont be tooo touchy touchy smoocjy smoochy. Now go cuddle with your hunny bunnie! =)

Answer 9

I wouldn't have a separate room set up. If one of us is sick, the other sleeps on the couch. If I need space, I go into our room and he watches TV in the living room.

Answer 10

I would never want to have a room separate from my spouse. if I were angry with him, i would still sleep in our room to let him know just how frustrated I am with him. Separated rooms or beds is not an option.