I'd like advice. How do you deal with a friend who is no longer speaking to you?

Question

I have a friend who stopped speaking with me because she, obviously, is very upset about something that happened between us. Without being really specific, I really feel as if I handled the situation the best I could and it is her who has messed things up, but she doesn't see it that way. I feel I have been wronged, but I also feel awful about what happened. What should I do about our friendship?

Answer 1

Ask yourself: "Can i live without my best friend?"
If the answer is no then swallow your pride and make the first move to get your friendship back on track. If the answer is yes then don't stress and continue living your life without her. Good luck.

Answer 2

Did you talk about it and let each other talk about each others feelings about the situation. If you did, than that is good. If it was your fault or if you had some fault, apologize too. Next, give her some space so she can think. Eventually she will call you or start receiving your calls.
I know because I was mad at my best friend once and I just needed to think first and then talk to her about it. I took several weeks to be able to get over the anger, but eventually I realized how much I treasured her friendship.

Answer 3

I've just recently faced the same problem. SOme people feel as though they are never wrong. Don't worry yourself about it. I know it bothers you because you saw this person as friend. A mutual friend once told me, " if the friendship is real, it'll work itself out". Things will fall back into place if they're able able to see there faults. Pray about it and try not to let it bother you.

Answer 4

I'm in the same situation too. except for me, i think im the same as your friend. i thought i was right, until a lot of ppl told me i was the one who did wrong. maybe your friend thinks you've wronged her, and doensn't see what she has done. try talking to her even if she doesn't want to talk to you. and when you guys talk, she's gunna probably raise her voice and yell and stuff. if you still want to be her friend, it's important that you don't raise your voice too and that you remain calm even if she's going all crazy.

if she doesn't want to talk or if you did all you can, then i guess you should just leave it at that and not regret anything that you couldn't have changed. after all, since you've handled the situation as best as you could, theres nothign else you could've done to change that.

Answer 5

Wait and relax see if she comes around.You tried calling not your fault she won't talk.
You can't control or change others but you can yourself.If really in a hurry then write her a letter.Tell her all that you just said.Have it registered so she has to sign for it.
That way you know it was placed in her hands.Then it is up to her.

Answer 6

Ignore her? why waste time to worry about it? You have your own life and who knows she will give it up and come to you. There are nothing for you do the friendship with her. If it was your fault, then go to her and tell her its your fault and sorry to her. It will work, who knows.

Answer 7

may be she's feeling awful too about how ur friendship became.. i really suppose so.. try to talk to her .. try to make it clear for her that u really care and that u don't want to lose her.. that will help i'm sure.. and then see how she'll react.. i gurantee it believe me!!

Answer 8

Pray for them and pray for your friendship. God can handle any situation

Answer 9

Sometimes you just have to be the one to say sorry, even if it really wasnt your fault. Or just go up to her and be like "this is really stupid. Why wont you talk to me?" something like that

Answer 10

she is a biotch. leave her butt, either that or strap her to a chair and MAKE her listen to you! and if she doesn't, go and B-slap her!