I am living in the Middle East, and am American. She is from the Middle East. However, I could have gotten my girlfriend pregnant. We did not have sex and she's a virgin. She says she could have lost her virginity by using tampons, and masturbation. She has also put her finger inside herself. We were messing around without condoms and we were completely naked. She is taking a medicine called progyluton for irregular periods and today she is supposed to get her periods. However she hasn't gotten it. She is 17 turning 18 and I am 19. The law here forbids premaritial sex and has a very tough law towards it. Abortion is also illegal here. Please suggest!!!! we are both very freaked out as we can both end up serving time.
2007-01-11 07:44:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
you guys are the best, seriously- you've helped us so much. We were so stressed but now we feel much better. However, she's 17 and if she is pregnant and her parents find out- we can't really get married and move to the states. They might get authorities. Anyways more suggestions would be highly appreciated!
2007-01-11 08:26:50 · update #1
SHE JUST GOT HER PERIODS=D
2007-01-11 11:56:20 · update #2
Without having intercourse sex, there is only a very small chance she is pregnant. The fluid leaving you penis before actually having ejaculated has semen to and can get you pregnant, but there is a very slight chance. Stress can postpone your period and so don't be too worried if it didn't, unless it's going to be over more than a week.
Well, you both know the rules in your country and you should have respected them, because why putting yourself trough so much trouble. Our western thinking may think this ridiculous, but since you live there you need to live with those consequences.
Good luck for you both, but take a deep breath and relax a little, the period may come eventually.
2007-01-11 07:57:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you did not have any intercourse then I think it is unlikely that she is pregnant. If your semen went insider her vagina then it is possible she could get pregnant. Maybe you can buy a pregnancy test for her and the next time you get together she could maybe take it. Then of course you would have to discard the box so nobody knew. Good luck to you both. By the way - if a woman is stressed out about being pregnant it can throw her cycle off even if she isn't pregnant.
2007-01-11 07:55:05 · answer #2 · answered by Angela 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if she is, I'd say marry her and bring her back here.
While she could have broken hey hymen with tampons or fingers, she hasn't technically "lost her virginity" until she's had sex. If you didn't penetrate her, and didn't ejaculate, it's highly unlikely she could be pregnant. Possible, but very unlikely. It more possible that she's stressing too much about it and her period is delayed from that.
2007-01-11 07:51:15 · answer #3 · answered by tabithap 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
bugger, I thought things were getting better there! Where in the middle east are you? could you get a quicky wedding? bring her back to america? If you havent had sex then there is very very little chance of pregnancy. However the chance is still there. Dont freak out too much, wait a few days and if they still dont come, take a test.
2007-01-11 07:51:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seriously doubt she is pregnant. Probably just late for her period which is fine. Doesnt sound like you could have gotten her period and she doesnt lose her virginity by using tampons or masturbating. Just from having sex.
2007-01-11 07:51:51 · answer #5 · answered by Blondi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, you didnt have sex and she is still a virgin? i think ur a bit confused. either she slept with someone else and they got her pregnant or you guys had sex there is no way she can get pregnant if yall dont do anything. no she cannot loose her virginity by pleaseing her self or using a tampon.
2007-01-11 07:57:16 · answer #6 · answered by JENN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that is a whole different culture! I doubt that she can be pregnant if no penetration took place unless u ejaculated in her private or anywhere around there than that is another thing but if you didn't than don't worry about it she has irregular periods anyway!
2007-01-11 07:53:56 · answer #7 · answered by adri012980 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
without actually having sex, she can't be pregnant, and as far as virginity, she's still one, all that other stuff doesn't change that. and every female's period time changes, she won't have it the same time every month. relax and i suggest don't have sex with her if the laws there are that strict.
2007-01-11 07:50:02 · answer #8 · answered by jstar104 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
um... you should've been smart enough to keep your clothes on before you got married. I hope the best for you, but theres nothing we can do about it. as for your gf losing her virginity from tampons and masturbation, a girl looses her virginity from having sex by being penetrated by a penis not by fingers.
2007-01-11 07:49:28 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ღαмαиdα♥ღ 7 · 7⤊ 0⤋
You don't lose your virginity by using tampons or masturbation. You must have intercourse to lose your virginity. You also must have vaginal intercourse to get pregnant--so is this a serious question or what??
2007-01-11 07:51:59 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Sodas♥ 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋