Wife and I are thinking about trying this. You, at least we have heard about it alot. We are trying to set the ground rules. Not waring wedding rings, can we talk/dance with others. This seems so simple when first brought up but there are lots of things to talk about first. For any one who had done this how did it go? Would you do it again?
2007-01-11 07:36:45 · 11 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Jimmy,
Good point but we were not thinking of a bar with saw dust on the floor. The place we have picked out is a nice place that is pretty strict about your conduct while there.
2007-01-11 08:03:25 · update #1
I think that as long as you guys have set rules, it could be quite interesting for you.
2007-01-11 07:53:57 · answer #1 · answered by mydds07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I tried that once. I decided she thought too much of herself and was making me work to hard, so I told her it was nice meeting her, but I had other plans and tried to leave. She was a little confused and tried tagging along. She started asking what was going on and I told her she was freaking me out. One minute I buy her a drink and the next she's talking to me like we were married. I said it wasn't anything personal, but I just guess I was not ready to meet anyone right now. She then hit me. I don't think it was the night she planned, but I enjoyed myself.
2007-01-11 08:04:39 · answer #2 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sending your wife in a bar alone with drunk men around, and then later pretending to be the stud she leaves with, just does not sound safe, you could potentially get your butt kicked in there. Why not change location to a coffee shop. just a suggestions.....
2007-01-11 07:54:12 · answer #3 · answered by jimmy.parker06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've done it (Years ago) and at that time we drew the line with holding hands and closed mouth kissing of others we met until we picked the other up. It was fun and a bit naughty.....which made it even more fun!
2007-01-11 07:44:19 · answer #4 · answered by open_phunguy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No , but my husband and i used to go out often, when we did we agreed talk to whomever we choose, dance with anyone we desired , but at the end of the evening we knew we would go home together!
2007-01-11 07:43:31 · answer #5 · answered by janet r 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Never tried this, but it sounds like it could be fun.
2007-01-11 07:48:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it!!
I did this and my wife left with another guy.
Now I am paying for his baby.
2007-01-11 07:44:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
have not done that but have played escape convict and the wardens wife
2007-01-11 07:42:43 · answer #8 · answered by Mike 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's a good start. before you know it she'll be screwing her date in the bedroom while you watch
2007-01-11 07:46:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow, if you can't pick your own wife up at a bar, you've got issues...
2007-01-11 07:43:25 · answer #10 · answered by Back in the game... 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋