I've been seeing this guy for 3yrs n 1/2 now...Its a long distance relationship, im moving out there where he's at by the end of this month.We recently broke up but we act like were 2gether,we love eachother dearly,he was my first everything!! & i was his too.Im 19,he's 22, *The problem is that he wants 2 go out and party (I dont have a prob. w/that) But he wants to be messing around w/other girls as in having sex and other things..(thats y we broke up)...Should I just let him go??? (I know he loves me but he hasnt really been w/other girls)...By the way...he knows im going over there and still wants 2 do that!! (and he tells me he dont wanna loose me, that he wants to marry me later on in life..) what should I do???
2007-01-11 07:21:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Girl.. just let him go now. Don't even talk to him as much, it's only going to hurt you. Do you really want to hear about how he met some girl and did stuff with her? He is young so let him see what is out there, once he realizes that he was stupid in letting you go.. he will get back to you. But in a way that just wouldn't be fair to you. So I say you keep yourself away from him and start talking to other guys. You are also young and who knows, maybe you were destined to be with someone else. So just go out and live life. *Life is too short to be unhappy* Always keep a smile on your face!
Good Luck Girlie.. I can relate how you are feeling now, that is why I hope that everything turns out for the best! Take Care!!!
2007-01-11 07:34:03 · answer #1 · answered by WiseGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well lets be honest you guys are really young and basically haven’t experienced anything in life at all. He’s 22 and he hasn’t been with other girls he is curious and would like to experience that before he settles down. Its better for him to do it now then wait until he gets married. Guys just sometimes need to see what’s out there to then feel more secure and more complete in their relationships. He might love you but also want to enjoy his life before he settles with you. I suggest for both of you to see other people and give each other that space to figure out if you guys are really meant for each other. I know this is hard but in the long run it will be worth it. If the love is real and you are both willing to spend the rest of your lives together then you guys will go back. If not, then it was not meant to be.
2007-01-11 15:54:49 · answer #2 · answered by Alejandra2008 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would be real careful if you stay with a guy like this some men love women regardless of who they have at home waiting for them to return. i had to learn this the hard way and he brought home clamydia. luckily it was something meds could get rid of but i didnt stay around to see what else he brought home i left. and he also like hanging out and stuff we had 2 kids together and still hung out all the time. he woud go straight to the bar from work wouldnt come home till 1 sometimes later and when he got home the kids would be in bed and he didnt even care that he would godays with out spending time with them. now we arent to gether and he sees the kids maybe 1 time every 2 weeks. my kids dont understand why he doesnt come around and id hate for you to have to go threw any of that. your probly better off with out his drama. good luck with everything tho
2007-01-11 15:41:18 · answer #3 · answered by cute redhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. You're both too young as is obvious by the fact he wants to fool around. If it was meant to be, you'll meet up in the future.
2007-01-11 16:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by A T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young. Move on and let him go. Learn from the relationship. If this is how he feels, you won't change him. Move on with your life and find someone who deserves your love.
He is a jerk!
2007-01-11 15:30:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to end this thing.....YESTERDAY! He wants you, but he wants to mess with other girls: You're 19 years old:, you're moving there: ...I see more red flags here than there ought to be in a parade!
2007-01-11 15:32:28 · answer #6 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let him go. Hes not worth it. If he doesn’t value you and his relatuonship with him enough to not mess around with other girls then you need to just let him go. You can find so much better.
2007-01-11 15:28:39 · answer #7 · answered by IslandMusicMan68 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋