Im only 5 weeks and 5 days prego and i was wondering on how to get the miscarrage talk out of my head and to stop worring about it.
2007-01-11 07:12:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Tell everyone to shut the hell up and mind their own uterus. If it helps, just remember that miscarriages really only happen in the event of a serious genetic disorder that would probably mean the baby wouldn't survive anyway. I know that is a crappy way to think about it, but it always makes me feel better.
2007-01-11 07:19:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 34 weeks pregnant and I STILL worry that something is going to happen with the baby. It doesn't really go away, the fears just change (like from miscarriage to stillborn fears).
The fears are not logical and we need to just RELAX and know that what's meant to happen will happen, but it's impossible for me, so I don't know of any decent advice for you.
Just make sure that you see your OB regularly (once you start going, have you made an appointment yet?) and voice any concerns you have with him/her. Pick up some good pregnancy books (What to Expect When You're Expecting) and try to think of all the joys the pregnancy and baby will bring you. Good luck!
2007-01-11 15:37:28 · answer #2 · answered by eurekablyth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say I don't know how to get it out of your head.It's only natural that you worry about it.I sure did,I had 2 miscarriages before having my son.You have to just try and put it aside.You can't control what's going to happen,but relax a little.When your pregnant you worry about alot,it's something that you can't really help.Maybe if you talk to your doctor about your worries,he can help.He should have some way to help relieve your stress.When I found out I was pregnant with my son,my doctor sent me for an ultrasound.I gotta say,I did feel alot better after that.I wish you all the luck in the world.Keep in touch,I'll help you as much as I can.
2007-01-11 15:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by kslegaitis 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every pregnancy that occurs in different. There are no sure ways of knowing how they will turn out. Have faith. Believe everything will be ok. Don't go by anyone else's life experiences on this one. You are robbing yourself of the joy of being pregnant by worrying about a miscarriage. Let this be a happy and exciting time. Keep thinking about your baby and all the things you will get to experience with him/her. Think about names and nursery themes and what kind of parent you want to be. Don't let fear cheat you out of what should be one of the happiest times of your life.
2007-01-11 15:25:57 · answer #4 · answered by pitsrus 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good luck...I'm 8.5 months along and I still worry. You are always going to worry...but try to counter that worry with good thoughts. Think of all the wonderful things about having a baby.
2007-01-11 15:36:32 · answer #5 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, You'll either miscarry or you won't, but no amount of worrying about it is going to change fate. That alone should be enough to calm you - telling yourself that your worrying is futile and simply introducing stress that you don't need.
2007-01-11 16:36:01 · answer #6 · answered by Emily O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋