I will NEVER understand this. My husband and I never planned...and we have three beautiful children!!!
2007-01-11 06:36:04 · 7 answers · asked by Lynnie M 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Sometimes peoples excitement overwhelms them. It's all part of being human. I do agree with you though...God will bless you when it's your time!
2007-01-11 06:43:40 · answer #1 · answered by bell flower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are not able to concieve without some amount of planning. You were lucky and though I understand your opinion, you will never understand trying for years and not being able to. I believe in god and that things will happen as they are supposed to. Yet I also know the pain of not being able to concieve. As a woman you know that our bodies are very complicated and sometimes are not in tune. Sometimes things have to be coaxed in order to make a dream come true. You shouldn't worry too much, if they are planning to concieve obviously they truly want one and are prepared to take care of them. I think that it may actually be better to plan ahead rather then be shocked that a test comes up positive and having to worry about "oh no I'm pregnant"!
2007-01-11 07:26:28 · answer #2 · answered by nena b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did not plan and now I am hoping that God steps in and works some magic because I am ready for my first baby. I understand where you are coming from, but some people do have fertility issues ( like my best friend ) and need an extra "push" to help them conceive.
2007-01-11 06:59:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak for others, but I am "planning" because I have health issues to where I can't just let "magic" happen and hope for the best. That would have serious consequences for me and the unborn baby. Also, I believe in God, but remember the saying, that God helps those who help themselves. Sometimes it is extremely irresponsible to just not plan and then say "Oh we are trusting that God will take care of it"
2007-01-11 08:01:47 · answer #4 · answered by ambr1105 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever stop to think that not everyone believes in a God? Did you ever think that not everyone can afford a child to come at anytime and that maybe they need to financially plan for it so that they can give it the best life possible? maybe you should think about other peoples situations before asking such a ridiculous question.
2007-01-11 07:10:21 · answer #5 · answered by larann78 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are 1 hundred percent right, so many of these people are not even married and some want to have a baby in order to keep the guy
2007-01-11 06:45:08 · answer #6 · answered by elizabeth_davis28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people don't believe in God you know.
2007-01-11 06:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by tabithap 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋