I will be moving in a couple of months to live with my mum but the thing is i got this best friend and i am totally in love with her but i dont know wheather i should tell her before i go or after i leave or not at all. Where i am going, isnt so far away from where i am now so i would still see her from time to time. I am bi and she dont know that. I dont no if she is bi or not but what i feel for her is not false so should i tell her how i feel before i go, after i go or not at all? any advice is totally appreciated.
2007-01-11 06:35:19 · 3 answers · asked by dudett 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
The answer requires alot of thought on your part. You can tell her and risk losing her friendship or you could keep it to yourself and risk not knowing if she feels the same way about you. Therefore, missing out on a potential loving relationship with her. Ask yourself this: Has she said or done anything to make you think she may be into you in more than just a friendly way? I cannot give you an answer to your question , I can only offer new ways of looking at your situation. Best of luck to you whatever you decide. I hope it all works out for you.
2007-01-11 06:51:43 · answer #1 · answered by burnettebreeze98 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should but maybe u should tell her u are bi and than if she is fine with it wait a couple of days and tell her how u feel about her that way its not too mush shock at 1 time
2007-01-11 16:17:19 · answer #2 · answered by theocluvver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to go for it
2007-01-11 16:10:37 · answer #3 · answered by txlesbian06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋