2 yrs married. what should you do if one of you is not into sex ? it might be its the genes causes it or due to the aging process.
you only have sex for atleast once a month but mostly dont have one.
sex is a terrable for you because one of you is boring in the bed and no matter how you told what you like, it is not getting any better the way the performance is.
what should gonna do if it is were you?
do you want to still stay with? even you love sex but cant give you enought ?
how do you feel this way ?
we are not talking about obese people here that causing problem and no is not...
thanks in advance..
2007-01-11 06:32:26 · 10 answers · asked by confusegirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, good thing you clarified that you're not obese! I would say that one of you may not find the other as attractive anymore. We are human and humans get easily bored...
2007-01-11 06:45:12 · answer #1 · answered by Back in the game... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a great question... My first husband and I did not have sex until we got married. He was a great guy and he loved me very much. On our wedding night when we ya know did it well he had the smallest penis I had ever seen. We weren't virgins or anything we just wanted to wait and make it special. It wasn't special at all. I cried all night. It was so upsetting to know I married someone who was never going to be able to make me happy in bed. 4 months later we got a divorce. I'm not telling you to go get a divorce but sex is a big part of a marriage and if you love sex and your husband isn't able to make you happy then your going to end up looking somewhere else for it. You need to have a long talk with him about how he needs to change the way he does things. If you don't you marriage will not work. One of you will get tired of it. Good luck
2007-01-11 15:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by corene D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is no sex, marriage would grind to a halt.
You guys need a therapist. It might take a while. My wife went on the nuva ring and the hormone avalanche caused her to have no sex drive for 7 months. We got through it though, thank god.....
If after all strong efforts are exhausted, what else can you do?
2007-01-11 14:51:15 · answer #3 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the key to the problem is discovering WHY there is no sex drive. It could be anything from stress to not eating properly. The only way you're going to discover the reason behind it is to talk with the significant other. If you two can't figure it out, then you'll have to bring in a therapist.
2007-01-11 14:58:48 · answer #4 · answered by KL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...if I were you I'd seek therapy. Its not normal for a woman your age not to enjoy sex. I feel for your husband but men will usually support you when this type of problem occurs. Good luck my dear!
2007-01-11 14:47:54 · answer #5 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Other than the sex, is the marriage for you good?
If the marriage is good in other ways and the partners treat each other well, stay together and satisfy yourself with vibrators.
If the marriage is not good at all, then get divorced.
2007-01-11 14:46:24 · answer #6 · answered by Nancy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said "married"--for better or worse, good time and bad. even if the bad times last for decades. you took the vow, you live with the vow. seek some therapy and talk about it. it may never resolve itslelf, but it may never. get a "bob" and live with it. as long as he's not abusing you...what did you vow?
2007-01-11 15:01:07 · answer #7 · answered by foghorn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have sex the same way you write the english language, communication could be the problem.
2007-01-11 15:04:03 · answer #8 · answered by open_phunguy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to spread that p*ssy and let him pound it the way he knows how. You could also try sucking his c*ck when he wakes up in the morning, that will really get him going on your p*ssy.
2007-01-11 15:19:11 · answer #9 · answered by Penelope 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SWAGE
2007-01-11 15:18:51 · answer #10 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋