2007-01-11 06:11:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You shouldn't try to compete with his family. He will always love them, and he should.You have to make your own place in his heart, beside them, not above them. Frankly if i knew someone who put his wife above his family, i wouldn't think much of him. Concentrate on being happy with him. Be glad you found a man who is a good son, brother etc. he will also be a good husband . Calm down and don't look for problems. Those will come to us all, soon enough.
2007-01-11 12:39:25 · answer #1 · answered by cee jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you love your husband forgetting your parents? You cannot, coz your parents are the first to know you well and make you grow up with all there sufferings in their life.
It is just like that your husband is. No one can change this sutiation. But if you feel they are wrong , you can let your husband know and make him understand it is wrong and take them in the right path.
Black magic is not worth to do in this case. coz it will be the lie of the love. You won;t be the real love from him.Black magic is not the right way. If you go , it is you who will be worse than comparing to his family. Allways real love wins more than black magic and black magic will spoil totally. You would have learnt these in puranas. I am saying this coz someone have suggested black magic which is no safe and totall life is spoiled.
2007-01-12 10:39:26 · answer #2 · answered by Mayandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A wife to do everything that what needed to husband for his won family with her good mind thats all.
2007-01-11 13:44:29 · answer #3 · answered by Alexius T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, you should not expect this of him. Loving his family and loving you are different kinds of love. Remember his family were there before you were. Dont make him choose, love his family too and you will gain so much love. Love is something we all need and if everyone loved each other instead of hate, we would have a perfect world.
2007-01-11 11:40:41 · answer #4 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
suicide herself. then the husband will love her forever for her great sacrifice that she could bear her husband's love for his family being more than her. hope u are a woman. truely, speaking, the husband loves her wife more than his family when his wife loves his family even more than him. believe it or not!
2007-01-11 07:21:38 · answer #5 · answered by computersir 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its because his family is keeping him busy and entertaining him more.
well is ur guy kinda interested in the family gossip which his family is very good at giving the masala ones.
well you have to take that role.
spend time with him, not just a sex and sleep in the night
try getting him into discussions he likes take interest in his interests.
and NEVER speak bad about his family
2007-01-11 08:41:47 · answer #6 · answered by c.dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to love his family & to love u personally is in a diffrent manner.so what u get from your husband side is a stable love for u . there is not a more or less.u have to satisfied with him if u not then u also behave with him what he behave with u.like if u want to go outside & he tell no then when othertime he ask for going or something else u have to refuse him.
2007-01-11 12:07:53 · answer #7 · answered by deepti p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
computers last 2 lines and ceejay words are truth you should feel yourself that u r a part of the family,and there is no husband family or others it is ur family...
pls think........
2007-01-11 22:02:23 · answer #8 · answered by bond 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make some good food of his taste & yes Some black magic also. So he may love you than every one else. & after all it didn't work than try to dance some caberrate dance so he will get mad on you.
2007-01-11 17:53:24 · answer #9 · answered by rockylike007 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you do what ever he is telling you to do he is also a human being he will him self realize that you love him more than his family and then he will love you you listen to you
2007-01-11 09:53:49 · answer #10 · answered by Kash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋