I was talking with my friend today who is newly married --- and he mentioned to us that his wife tld him he was the best she ever had (in the bed). This made me start wondering --- do most women tell there boyfriend\husband that they are the best -- whether they are or not --- to make them feel special --- did you?
2007-01-11 06:07:23 · 32 answers · asked by brainfreeze007 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-01-11 06:19:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is contained in the previous, yet i also imagine it relies upon on your age.. if you're a youthful lady (between 18 and 24) and also you've had that many distinct companions, are you somewhat waiting to decelerate and be monogamous? which will be my (as a guy) variety one issue.. i don't believe of that it would want to inevitably be a deal breaker, however it would want to be contained in the decrease back of my recommendations. surely do not tell him a decrease variety and then later in existence tell him the real variety, with the aid of the indisputable fact that could want to create a huge trust mission and then it perchance can be a deal breaker.. both tell him, "does it somewhat count number, i'm purely with you presently, and that is all it really is substantial," or tell him the fact. or perhaps if that's a deal breaker, then obviously he wasn't precise for you.
2016-12-02 03:23:18 · answer #2 · answered by marconi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men love for their wife to tell them how good they are in bed. NEVER say the best you ever had, because then the question start. Just how many men have you had, who were they, you mean you just went around testing and sleeping around all the men you dated. Then they never will stop asking all those question , eveytime you see a man , he'll say well, how was he in a very scarcastic way. Just tell him you are so good in that bed, Man I'm so fortunate to have you, I never knew it could be this good, WOW! Stay on the safe side always.
2007-01-11 06:22:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, i don't believe in lies to make one simply feel better. I think that is wrong. Why say anything at all. Persoanlly though I thought that i had the best at one time but when I decided to get married I knew it was the best. Sex doesn't make a person the best it is all that goes with it.
2007-01-11 06:23:33 · answer #4 · answered by r_fazenbaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've told my husband he's the best... I have had a lot (read: ALOT!!!) of partners in my day, and he really is the best! Not necessarily the biggest, but definitely the best! I think you should tell somebody if they are the best that you have ever had in bed... but only if they really are! But one of the factors in there should be love. If the person really loves you, they probably will be the best you've ever had in bed!
2007-01-11 06:15:36 · answer #5 · answered by mom4ivp 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have told my husband he is the best I ever had because he is. Have I told other men that before him yes but that was before I met my husband. Sex is so much better when your having it with someone you love. If your in love it feels better. I don't think women lie to their husbands about that. I don't
2007-01-11 06:42:28 · answer #6 · answered by corene D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have never married a man who wasn't the best I have ever had. But saying "You're the best" is bringing the past partners into the discussion which isn't cool.
2007-01-15 03:56:36 · answer #7 · answered by eubysgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way to have what you want is to give it 10 times greater than you receive it! Your friend's wife is a very wise woman! She has everything she wants in her man and he must satisfy her completely, or she wouldn't tell him that he does...
You know, I told my man that he was the best and an amazing lover! Each time, it got better & better! And I craved having him - He never complained & I ssssoooo enjoyed telling him how much he pleased me! I liked seeing him smile & it let me know he wanted me too!
2007-01-11 06:30:24 · answer #8 · answered by T. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know a lot of women who do that, i do tell my boyfriend he is the best i've ever had and is true but then again i've only been with 2 guys and the 1st was a jerkkkk... so i guess yeah sum women do that to make them feels special. but u men do something like that like when u tell she is the most beutiful woman in this world. oh come on u know that's a lie but u doit to make her feel special so....
2007-01-11 06:33:28 · answer #9 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband is the best I every had I don't tell him that just to make him feel good I tell that because he is the best in bed I evry had.
2007-01-11 06:42:48 · answer #10 · answered by Tangula G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tell mine that because it's true. Out of the four men that I've had in my life, he's by far the most considerate and passionate of them - that's one of the reasons I'm keeping him! The thing is, he has a lot of experience and knows my body better than I do!
2007-01-11 06:36:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋