girls im 14 and do u believe that when a boy says he loves you 4 the first time he actually knows what he is talkin about.do they reali know wat is goin on inside our heads when they say that.or,even worse when we say 'i love you'what is goin on in their heads.when is the right moment to say this.if ever
2007-01-11 06:00:07 · 13 answers · asked by beccy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
listen-- um seventeen--- ive had loads of boys tell me they love me--- but they just wanna get in your pants ;p ---DONT LET THEM!! soo-- if you wanna talk about it (um rly open minded) add me to hotmail (sleepy_dangerous@hotmail.com) & notify me of who you are--- like (um beccy who asked the question on yahoo about the boys n love) --- imma here rfor younguns like you ;p
2007-01-11 06:08:17 · answer #1 · answered by SealedWithAKiss <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are only 14 years old boys and love should not be on your mind at all. Focus on school, I know this day in age it's not like that but for the record a boy at 14,15,16,17 years old most likley would be lieing if he said he loves u. At that age your too young to know what the true meaning of love is.
2007-01-11 15:08:41 · answer #2 · answered by personality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 14, I don't think either of you understand the true concept of love. I am not saying that the feelings you have are not real. I promise in the next 10 yrs. both of you will have matured and learned alot more about true love. You probably won't even be hanging out anymore..... and then again this could be a true high school sweetheart!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-11 14:12:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
k well you arent gonna like this but at your age neither you or the boy knows what love is all about. infatuation and raging hormones is what you know about. do yourself a favor. dont say the words and punch him in the shoulder if he says it to you. the rmotions you are talking about... save it till you are older. and by the way the boy is probably just trying to get you to have sex with him and that is also best when saved until later
2007-01-11 14:13:26 · answer #4 · answered by bjjacknife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they mean waht they say at the time but AT 14 DO NOT ACTUALLY KNOW WHAT IT REALLY MEANS. Ask any male over the age of 30 and they will agree with this.
2007-01-11 14:04:02 · answer #5 · answered by D B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok at the age of 14 neither of you will know what love is, so its not right t say it when you do fall in love you will know...............have fun first dont get tooo involoved with boys, enjoy your life first hun thats what your supposed to be worrying about lol
2007-01-11 14:07:23 · answer #6 · answered by michellethomas50 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a 14 year old boy is brimming with hormones, he will say anything to get his sticky chocolate covered fingers under your bra. at 14 he wont know what affection is even. so dont believe anything they say.
2007-01-11 14:45:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most boys aren't interested in love. They're interested in sex and know that girls are suckers for love.
I wouldn't take it too seriously.
2007-01-11 14:13:04 · answer #8 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay i questioned myself the first time when i said i love you to a girl but trust me sometimes you just can't tell the second time and even the third time i meant it though. send me an email okay!
2007-01-11 14:05:25 · answer #9 · answered by IisIam 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think your a little to young
to know about love any anyone sayin it to you apart from immediate family dosent know what there talking about
2007-01-11 15:28:58 · answer #10 · answered by boredstupid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋