Why is life so hard?I?

Question

i MEAN WHAT'S THE POINT?Every single thing i do just backfires on me i hate my life and my existence.what's the point?

Answer 1

It's only hard if you let it get the best of you. You need to be the one getting the best of your life. Don't let it beat you.

Answer 2

When I have gone through the worst things ever...I never thought I could make it. I never thought I'd even live to Grand ma hood, but I have.
Life is ups and downs, But Remember Stuff happens. Things Change.
If you can find one thing to be thankful for and continue even for a minute, hour, 8 hours, etc. I have said this before, but it is so true: the darkness shifts and you are reminded that you do have what it takes to make it and you will.
You might win the lottery next week or whatever. Just hold on You've got nothing to lose by waiting smile

Answer 3

Oh, we have alll our lifes which can be hard sometimes and some of my mates had some tough times at college and i some too which is to find a job but i cant and its making my life miserable. But what u need is some professional help from trustful adults like your parents, tutors, or other adults who may be available 2 help u sort out your hard life out. Dont be too miserable on you as u r putting yourself down! Get some help and be confidant and smile!1

Answer 4

i know, it does suck sumtimes but then something really good happens all out of nowhere and life just seems so worth it after that. all i can say is take it easy and just have fun cuz thats what life's about, rite? oh and do find someone nice to share your life with. oh and everything happens for a reason so try and think what the reason might be and what you have learnt from your mistakes. don't just say that everything backsfire and only your life is bad cuz it just depends on how you look at things

Answer 5

You only have one, so make the best of it.
Usually when something backfires on you, it means it was wrong in some way, right? Stop doing wrong and you will see a change.

Answer 6

The energies you put forth with your negative attitude and expectations are what is shaping your life. If you desire, expect, and know you will achieve greatness, happiness, and ease of living, then those energies will act accordingly in shaping the better life. Think about it. You know something's going to go wrong, so it does. What would happen if you knew something would go right? Try it out.

Answer 7

Don't be too hard on yourself.
Things can't be that bad.....I have a friend who's baby is clinging onto it's life tonight.
There is always someone worse off than yourself although it probably dosent feel that way at the time.

Chin up hey x

Answer 8

What do you mean point? Who said there was supposed to be any purpose to this? You live, you die. End of story. Just go find someone to have sex with- you'll feel better by the time you're done.

Answer 9

life is hard for everyone, pull youself together man. You have not been chosen by a divine power to piss you off, life is hard, but you need to dust yourself down, have a smile on your face and try again. Only losers quit, winners fail but pick themselves up and try again and again and again until they succeed. This is the key to life, taking failure in your stride. Your approach to life needs to change, don't sit down and feel sorry for yourself, you need to create your own opportunities and when you fail learn from you mistakes and try again.

Remember Kipling:

If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise:

If you can dream-and not make dreams your master;
If you can think-and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two imposters just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools:

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on!"

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with Kings-nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And-which is more-you'll be a Man, my son!

Answer 10

if there weren't any gray clouds in your life sugar then you could never appreciate the silver linings. Life is hard so that you can learn from it and strive to be all you can be darlin'. I wish you the best because there are so many points in striving to be all that you can be.

Answer 11

Life is what YOU make it. The point is get off your but and stop feeling sorry for yourself. Or get some medication that will force you to.