how come are guy can sleep with a lot of girls and be called the man?

Question

but a girl turns around and does the samething and is called a slut and a hoe? i hate that it just doesn't make sense

Answer 1

Because its harder for most guys to get alot of girls. A guy has to lie, have money, be attractive, be good in bed, nice car and/or have personality to get alot of girls. When a guy gets alot of girls he's actually accomplished something that some guys can't.
On the other hand, its easy for a girl to sleep with alot of guys. Guys are trying to sleep with girls all the time. She doesn't have to be that attractive, rich, or alot of personality. She just has to be horny. When a girl sleeps around, it was easy she didn't have to do much to accomplish it.

Answer 2

I don't think it makes any sense either, I can't believe it is still happening but it is. Senseless.

It's probably based on old archaic religious ideas that we are no longer supposed to have to be following, cause everybody's beliefs are different anyway.

And there is supposed to be separation of church and state! The government itself is much better at following that than the people are themselves.

Also did you ever wonder? How would people even know who was sleeping with who, if they weren't running around getting into other people's business! And that isn't right all by itself.

That's my opinion of reputation. It should be considered total nonsense. Cause' what it boils down to, is nothing more than people minding other people's business.

Now if the person is considered important by there town, say, a local cheerleader or something? That is all ok, even though she may be the biggest w.... of all. I am not genearalizing about that! There are many who aren't, to.

As for guys, there is a stigma attached, they just don't see it right away. Like girls will still think twice about all that.

Cause' there is no garentee he won't continue his ways after he is married. And many of those guys just aren't a good bet, cause they will go through many divorces, or get a disease, or most probably lose everything they have, and when they have aged alittle too? NO one will really care about them. Who will be there for them?

This goes back before religion, though. I still think it is unusual for a woman to want to get involved with a lot of them. And this goes way back before religion.

Cause' women are oriented more around love, home, possibly family. Jobs as well as arts and crafts, baking, etc. Being part of a well run home.

And sorry guys! I don't mean this in any kind of derogatory way, more oriented into sex, at least for the younger years.

Guys peak very young, women much, much, older before we fully ripen up!

Did I say peak? Or, Peek?!

Answer 3

Because it is still a man's world, in some ways, and women don't fight back against that stuff. When I hear of a man doing that stuff that I know, I call him the same thing a woman is called.

Answer 4

yes that does not make sense i would say women are not viewed as equals

and no.. i dont think thats fair

Answer 5

i agree, it doesn't make sense. what a big discovery! women like sex as much as men. everyone should just shut up!