I bought this fishnet g-string outfit and went to model it for my husband. He just adjustable the straps on it. Then he continuned watching tv. Is there something wrong with me or is it just my husband. I am only 20 years old. I had a baby almost a year ago. And I am almost back to my prepregnancy weight.
2007-01-11 05:09:36 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Other than whatever he was watching on TV took precedence over the outfit. Was he still uninterested after watching TV?
Ask yourself, is this a new behavior? Has he always been like this or is it just since you had the baby? Was this a natural birth? Did he want the baby? (nothing against the baby, sometimes it is overwhelming for the guy) Are you using birth control? Are you secure with all the answers to these questions, no doubts?
Try these..
Was that the first time something like that happened? Have there been any other changes regarding your relationship? Has his routine changed? Still spending the same amount of time home / work? Are there time lapses that he can't account for or his excuses are lame? Has his job become more physical? Does he have any new hobbies or interests that are taking him away from home? Phone numbers you don't recognize on his cell phone (if he has one).
If you are pretty secure with your answers and haven't noticed any changes, then ask him. "Is there something wrong?" Sometimes the birth of a baby weirds guys out. Especially, a natural birth or he is nervous that too much frolicking will result in another baby. Worse case scenario, perhaps there is a physical reason and he is afraid to tell you. The best advise anyone can give you, talk to each other. When there is a problem, talk. Don't go to friends, relatives or columns, talk to each other. Only a converstion between the two of you can answer the question you asked. Best of Luck
2007-01-11 06:34:56 · answer #1 · answered by Sandy_cruzir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOTHING is wrong with you, sometimes all I have to do is flash just a bit of skin, and my hubby is all over it. (such a great hubby I have too) and if I wore that outfit into the room, as long as there were no kids running thru the house or other things going on, you'd bet he'd be on it in a heartbeat. So, there's something wrong with your hubby, or maybe it was a football playoff on tv? And let me tell you, I'm no supermodel, I've had two kids and although I've lost the weight, I got horrible non elastic skin, and even still, my hubby makes me feel like the most desirable woman.
2007-01-11 13:21:28 · answer #2 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget the night gown. Go get a bow and wrap a piece of ribbon around and go up behind him and say you got something in the mail. Would you like to open it. When he turns around tell him you are the present he got and if he turns around and goes on like nothing then you should ask him if something is wrong. Sometimes things are stressful the first year or two of marriage and having a baby is lot for a guy. Work on your communication and the all the other things will fall into place. GOOD LUCK
2007-01-11 13:21:11 · answer #3 · answered by samantha s 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Women....when are you going to realize we MEN sometimes don't get the subtle hints you throw at us? Turning off the TV before you approached him to adjust the straps would have been a better hint. But then again, there are some men you just have to tell, TAKE ME I"M ALL YOURS!!!
2007-01-11 13:20:46 · answer #4 · answered by mvas800 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with either of you. Daily fatigue and babies can kill a good sex life. Don't give in to it. Send the baby to Granny's and plan a weekend away from TV and day-to-day life. Go to a lovely Bed & Breakfast, and screw his brains out. Most of all, don't let him ever take you for granted.
2007-01-11 13:30:05 · answer #5 · answered by Tom Cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask him sweety. Maybe you needed to do more than just have him adjust the straps. Make your move.
2007-01-11 13:13:35 · answer #6 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys don't like the fishnet thing. I don't really.
HOWEVER it would clear what kind of attention you were seeking. I don't care if it was a personalized address from the Queen I would shut it off.
2007-01-11 13:14:47 · answer #7 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like he's gay to me....not that there's anything wrong with that. Maybe he's jealous...ask him if wants to try it on too.
Sorry, in all honesty, there is nothing wrong with you. My bet is that he is at a point in his life that he just wants to have time to himself. With work, wife, kid, bills...etc he may feel like he has no time for himself. This happens to both men and women alike and takes time to overcome. There are way for you to make him snap out of it, but you'll have to be creative.
2007-01-11 13:30:38 · answer #8 · answered by Cyber Stalker 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Definitely a problem with your husband. I mean if my wife had done that to me it would be instant hard and instant sex. Now you have my mind racing.
2007-01-11 14:03:57 · answer #9 · answered by finished 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time, turn off the TV when you walk into the room!
2007-01-11 13:14:30 · answer #10 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋