i have seen many coupls that after some years , women feel doesnt love her husband but man still does ,why so ?
2007-01-11 05:03:32 · 17 answers · asked by Dream 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
think your wrong there mate
2007-01-11 05:07:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The reason why is because women put more into relationships than men. Men pick a wife like they're buying a burger. Once it's eaten, there's really no reason to continue putting Ketchup and mustard on it in their view. FACT: Women buy 75% of all the realtionship help books. FACT: Women are the first to recommend counseling when things are not going well in relationships. FACT: Women do more to work on the health of the marriage than men. FACT: Most men aren't even aware that their relationship is in trouble. They expect women to tend to their sexual needs but they don't tend to women's emotional needs. Men are learning but they haven't quite caught up yet. The problem is that men unintentionally view women as an appliance - like a blender that doesn't need to be maintained - only taken out when they want a margarita (sex). Men apparently don't require the friendship and emotional intimacy that women do. So, women lose interest in sex with thier husbands and eventually fall out of love. Eventually men (in general) will get there but it's not going to be any time soon.
2007-01-11 13:29:04 · answer #2 · answered by Lilith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a great question it can go eather way but for most men we like things to stay the same in a relationship women love change and they will change the house around and they will try to change their husband and the other reason why it seems that men love longer is that most men screw up the marriage and wont let go when most guys say your the one you are the one so it,s not that easy for us to let go but time will heal everything
2007-01-11 15:54:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really? well then I must be the FOOL! I don't think I could ever stop loving my husband. And he hasn't been the best husband that's for dam sure. But I still love the man, after 20 years! I love him more then he'll probably ever care to realize.
2007-01-11 13:09:02 · answer #4 · answered by SecretFriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would venture to say that it is because of unmet expectations. Most women "buy" the Cinderella story. However, real life isn't like that. By the time we've been married for 10 or 15 years we realize that our life has gone from romance and flowers and I love you .... to dishes, dinner, kids, laundry and hubby in the recliner til he comes to bed at midnight. Don't take your wife for granted or think that just because you've been married a long time that she doesn't want to go out on a date, or receive flowers....or even hire a maid to come clean the house one day just to give her a day off......
2007-01-11 13:11:41 · answer #5 · answered by ravred300 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting question.
Women spend a lot of time buying clothes. Every season bring new styles. They always seem to want something new.
Men find something they like and they will stick with it until they are forced to change. Jeans, slacks, tee shirts, dress shirts. Men have a stronger sense of brand loyalty.
In general I think men are happy with less and so are more easily content.
Men like food.
Women like candle light dinners
Men like sex.
Women like romance, weekends away, flowers, cards.
I think Gene Simmons said it best. "Men want sex and power. Women want everything."
2007-01-11 14:25:42 · answer #6 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I see it the other way around. Maybe that's wrong. I know its easier for a man to pick up faster in go on with his life faster then a women. That I know for sure. But as fas as a man to "still" love that person. Its hard to tell.Or maybe the men does still love because 90% of the time it was the man who broke up his relationship by cheating. So there fore they realize what they had. In there fore they feel sorry for them self's and they realize that they really did love that person. Who knows...........................................................................
2007-01-11 13:16:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men give up trying to work on a relationship as soon as they say their vows - they just expect things to stay perfect without any effort. They are not there emotionally for support and they don't help around the house.
2007-01-11 13:10:15 · answer #8 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because women want what they can not have. Men don't like to fail. Women are ready and willing to start chasing some more men. Men on the other hand, tend to want to get that relationship back.
2007-01-11 13:07:46 · answer #9 · answered by 35 goodlookinmalefrombalt 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think in most relationships, one has more love than the other...be that the man or the woman.
2007-01-11 13:18:13 · answer #10 · answered by Bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't always the case though it is an interesting observation.
I wonder if a formal study has ever been done on it...
2007-01-11 13:07:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋