I found out today that my ex-boyfriend has is first new girlfriend and it really made me sad which I was not expecting. I never thought he would have another girlfriend because he works 80 hours a week. We dated from mid freshman year in college to the end of our senior year and are only days apart in age. He lived in philly and i lived in pittsburgh so we parted ways but still talked. I had new boyfriends only one or two but he would ask me detailed questions and I could tell he still cared. He never even kissed another girl besides me, crazy huh. Anyways I am 8 months pregnant now and he knows all about it and came to visit me 5 months ago. He still calls and he never had a girlfriend until recently. I am having a baby, bought a house in pittsburgh, but I always thought we would be together in the long run. However, he was in Florida for a week with his new girlfriend and it really made me sad. What should I do, tell him I still love him/remian freinds? Is there any chance?
2007-01-11 04:39:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
By the way no he is not the father. I had a boyfriend for over a year and got pregnant by him when an antibiotic made my birth control not work but he cheated and stole 600 bucks from me so he is out of the picture and has been since month 1 and i slept with the guy in philly 5 months ago.
2007-01-11 05:10:04 · update #1
Stay friends and let him move on romantically.
2007-01-11 04:42:59 · answer #1 · answered by Gabriel D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are expecting your day dreams to come true, It seems that you were all right with you having boy friends and flings after you broke up with him, but are sad because he now has a girlfriend, You thought he was on a shelf some where just waiting for you to tell him he could come back.It didn't work, so now you need to concentrate on what is real, you, your baby, and what you are going to do for the both of you, by your self. I do wish you the best. and hope all goes well for you and your baby
2007-01-11 13:35:51 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had new boyfriends--guys you told him about, yet you never thought your ex would find another girlfriend? What did you expect him to do? You always thought the two of you would finally be together, yet you did nothing to insure that possibility; and now that you're pregnant with another man's child, you're asking if there's a chance? Are you listening to yourself? Do you even see your ex as a person?
Leave this man alone. If he is foolish enough to give you another chance, let it be his decision--not yours. And if you are fortunate enough to get him back, at least have the decency to treat the man with more respect than you have thus far!
2007-01-11 13:10:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're 8 months pregnant with someone elses baby. It sounds like you've already moved on and should be happy for him that he has too. He probably hadn't dated cuz it took him this long to get over you. Let him be happy. If you guys are meant to be you'll be back together.
Good luck.
2007-01-11 12:44:47 · answer #4 · answered by water.bratz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is ALWAYS a chance. I would talk to him when you know he is by himself and has a few minutes and tell him how you feel. Sounds to me like you guys may have a good chance of getting back together. You never know. It wouldn't hurt. Just be prepared if he doesn't want to give it another shot. But, it wouldn't hurt to TRY. Good luck!
2007-01-11 12:43:20 · answer #5 · answered by bradnmich2003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you are having another mans baby...why arent you working on that relationship....it is very important to try to keep the parents toghether for this chil.d..it is whats best.,...i am guessing your ex has moved on and you shoud too....i know you care for him,,,and he probably cares for you still but he has a new girlfriend now and it isnt right fo ryou to barge into their relationship!...imagine that he was with someone before you and she came around confessing her love for him in attempt to win him away from you...how would you feel?no matter how hard it will be...leave it alone.....it is fo rthe better
2007-01-11 12:46:16 · answer #6 · answered by Life....it blows! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and find out how he really feels. He can care without needing to be with you. If the baby is his then you will be in his life and you need this worked out. If he is not the father just talk to him and then continue your life with or without him.
2007-01-11 12:44:51 · answer #7 · answered by rcbricker33 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You probably could be really good friends BUT you need to move on and cut contact with this person for you're own future and your childs future unless you're husband\boyfriend is okay with it.
Sounds like hormones.
Congratulations btw!
2007-01-11 12:52:31 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no I'm sorry i dont think so hes moved on and so should you and look after your beautiful baby (to be) and make the best life possible he was your 1st love and every 1 always holds a place in there heart for there 1st love xxx
2007-01-11 12:46:50 · answer #9 · answered by andrea.barrett36 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are definately feelings there. Who's the father of the baby?
2007-01-11 12:46:54 · answer #10 · answered by dwarner33 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. He's moved on, so should u. is he the baby's father? If not, concentrate on the new life you will be getting soon.
2007-01-11 12:43:14 · answer #11 · answered by candiec2005 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋