I have a friend whose personality has changed one hundred percent. If I had just met her today, I don't think I would be friends with her. She went through a divorce about 2 years ago and came out of it a different person. She has turned into a drinker, something she never did before, and she picks up guys in bars. How do I handle this. Our friendship is really being affected by this. Can someone please give me some advice that is honest?
2007-01-11 04:35:36 · 3 answers · asked by Dovah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
try and help her. maybe the divorce had a really bad effect on her and what she is doing right now is the only way she can get over the hurt that she suffered. you also have to be honest with her and tell her that she should seek professional help before she causes more damage to herself than she can mend when she gets back to her senses
2007-01-11 04:51:23 · answer #1 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for her to call you... I have had this same problem, my friend I have known since we were 10 and the past year she has cheated on her huband at least a dozen times some were one night stands, drinking etc. I used to call her once a month to check on her and say hi, visit with her, go to lunch, well after about a year it gets old because she never calls me or makes an effort. So let her make the next move.. Hope this helps
2007-01-11 12:53:21 · answer #2 · answered by Daisy Mae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she needs you more than ever, talk to her tell her about you'r concerns. Ask her if she wants to go to the mall or out to a movie or something like that. She is probley wanting to have some fun since she didn't before, but try to stear her away from the bar scene. Hope you get through to her, Good Luck.
2007-01-11 12:49:51 · answer #3 · answered by little lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋