my good friend just passed away 3 nights ago. we were very close and we have always been there for eachother....i went to the hospital to see if he was okay...and i was told by one of the doctors that he has actually asked to speak to me. When i entered the room i couldnt help but cry and hold my chest. He was in so much pain. head injury, broken lower spine, and a broken wrist. He called me over and started to cry. i held him and told him everything was going to be alright. He pulled me closer and held my hand and told me that i have to think positive,and take the small box from under his bed at home and bring it to his sister. his sister lives 2 hours away from where he lived. i knew that the assignment he gave me to do was very important and i was so happy to know that he chose me. The next day i found out he had passed away and at that moment i knew it was time to bring the box to his sister. there was only one big problem. i looked under his bed but found nothing. what do i do?!?!
2007-01-11 04:30:07 · 6 answers · asked by Jodi S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am so sorry to hear of your loss my heart and thought go out to you BIG HUGS from me.......I think I would call the sister if you have her phone number and explain what you had just done here and that you could not find the box maybe she can go over to his house and help you find it. Maybe she knows something about it already....As his belongings are sorted out you may come across it..Good luck and again sorry....
2007-01-11 04:46:26 · answer #1 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can talk to the family or the sister and see if its OK for you to look more around his home to find that box. But other than that be careful because the family just lost their son/brother and they might think you are trespasser the place and have you arrested.
I'm sorry for your loss :'-(
Hope, Love and Peace in your time of need.
2007-01-11 12:38:25 · answer #2 · answered by bottom dollar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell his sister what he said, but remember that with a head injury like that, he may not of had the mental capacity to really know what he was actually saying. If there is a box, look at it as something he wanted his sister to have, maybe she will have an ideal what it was. sorry you lost your friend.
2007-01-11 12:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by medgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry about your loss. as for q it's a tricky one but I've got to say maybe he wants you to figure out something so why don't you try and think back carefully about everything you've shared and talked about. good luck
2007-01-11 13:03:38 · answer #4 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask people about or discreetly look for it. But, if you don't find it I would not beat yourself up about it. He may of been delusional in the pain he was in. Although I would put every effort into finding it. I would not beat yourself up over it.
2007-01-11 12:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by janine b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should ask his mom or someone you both trusted if they know what he might be talking about....or just call his sister and tell her what he said and if she might know anything about it bc you didn't find it...maybe she can ask the mom or dad or even drive there to look?
2007-01-11 12:35:12 · answer #6 · answered by a1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋