y people behave normal even after they know that there is nothing normal...?

Question

well i m jus asking little messed with relations....try to help i mean tell me what should i do..?

Answer 1

JUST KEEP MUM IN THIS SITUATION AND THINK AFTER SOMETIMES.

Answer 2

Tapasya, no clue unless you say what ''sort' of a relationship you are referring to.

Assuming that you are talking about a messed up relationship with a freind, not particularly a boy or a girl, I can only say that sometimes people try to ''pretend'' that everything is normal, because they hate to be confronted, accused or participate in any sort of an argument. Sometimes, it could be because they want to pursue a normal relationship with you, meaning that they really do like you, so they do not want to tell you to ''get off my face''. They may have certain inhibitions, something that stops them from going further into a relationship, that includes, a boyfreind who is worried to commit to you, or a girlfriend/colleague/cousin..whatever, to commit any sort, or get too close. There may be a lot of things that is going through that person to pretend its normal. However, let us not think that whatever I said is the ''only'' reason. Another reason could also be to avoid you, and carry on withthe relationship to another level where they really arent' interested in you.

You are the best judge, and I am sure for you to ask this question, somewhere inside you, you definitely know that the other person is trying to pretend. Leave it, be strong, and move on. The best way to deal with this is carry on with the same attitude yourself. Behave normal, and pretend there is nothing abnormal. Wait and see, keep them guessing, and probably you will get your own answers soon.

good luck

Answer 3

at times we human try to be happy because we try to console ourselfes and the most for ppl around us. It hurts us inside but we want to show the world that our life is perfect which is nt right
But if U r in a mess, get things sort out wth a calm mind and patience also dont take any harsh decision. Why i m saying all this bcoz i m going through this rough phase too...and always rememeber of ur loved U as they are always there for U

Answer 4

i can do that but there're times when you can't pretend or lie that everything is OK. if you don't want any1 to know that there is something wrong then talk and act as you normally do. be aware of your eye contact and body language there are very important as some people can tell from them if anythings wrong

Answer 5

Might be jus becoz they wanna live normally n not get disturbed by getting into problems which have no solution...

Answer 6

You mean like why do people act like nothings wrong when something bad just happened? Denial...possibly they're not comfortable with sharing their emotions...maybe they're robots.