I realize I've asked this many times before, but the answers seem to stall out after a while and I'm just trying to get some advice from a bunch of different people....
I've read many posts out there regarding different things that turn me on, but my wife won't go near them, (specifically stockings, high heels) and it seems like many on here really get into that.
Anyone out there know how to help me? (outside of any snide remarks regarding divorce, looking at adult images or movies; etc If we ever do go out..her heels are the first thing off when we get home...even if I try to sweep her off her feet. And this is not all about me...I am asking because we do things her way all the time..she's on top (which I don't mind) and its right before we go to sleep... I should note its only once maybe twice a week that anything actually happens at all.
2007-01-11 04:21:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
See thats part of it....we've only been married nearly 2 years....
2007-01-11 04:32:31 · update #1
Well you should be able to be honest with your wife. You need to tell her that it turns you on seeing women in stockings and heals. If she doesn't want you to resort to another source(cheating), then she should do it with no problem. Go out, buy her some 5" or 6" heals, and tell her to wear them for you. It sounds like she doesn't do a lot of things you like, you need to tell her. It's strange im the complete opposite, i wear heals none stop. I bought boots that go up to my knees and i wear them for him during sex, walk around naked with them,. She really needs to learn how to please her man!!
2007-01-11 05:37:02 · answer #1 · answered by AnnaG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you offered her an exchange? Say, "I'll give you a wife appreciation day where I'll do anything you want in exchange for a hubby appreciation day where you do a few things I'd like as well" Be explicit about what you'd like her to do, and explain that you consider it a real turn on. She should be willing to help you out too!
2007-01-11 04:28:30 · answer #2 · answered by brown_iyed_grrl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-29 03:15:57 · answer #3 · answered by jeanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you tell her,that heels turns you on,I'll tell you,next time you guys go out,carry her when she gets in and then sweep her off her feet,tell her darling your legs look great in heels,being that you wear heels for me,I'm gonna carry you as if we just got married,you'll be my high school darling all over again as sexy as ever,and I'd be the guy that's madly in love with you.
lol let's face it,what do i know!
Good luck!
2007-01-11 04:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just get her some as a gift and ask her to try it on? But before you do that, hint it to her so it won't come as a total surprise.
Maybe she's scared that you might think that she's a whore if she complies. Just tell her that you think it would look really hot on her or something along the lines of that.
2007-01-11 04:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
she seems to be very controling im really sorry bout your situation. you say you try to sweep her off her feet, how? what do you do? and how do you behave with her when you aren't trying to score?
you need to let her know that you find her desirable all the time not just at "bedtime"
if you try and leave her little notes and stuff you might be suprised. silly little things mean alot
2007-01-11 06:06:10 · answer #6 · answered by bjjacknife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you are tired of the same ol' thing and that you would like for her to be more adventurous. Just go out and buy what ever turns you on and then present it to her when your about to get it on.
2007-01-11 04:26:51 · answer #7 · answered by Jacuzzi Lover 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Twice a week? Consider yourself lucky.
2007-01-11 04:27:16 · answer #8 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok took me a while but i get it! talk to her, be honest, she won't kill u! tell her u guys need something different to spice the relationship. go to a sex shop!
2007-01-11 04:28:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i read that and it makes no sense to me at all come again?
2007-01-11 04:26:19 · answer #10 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋