2007-01-11 04:19:50 · 14 answers · asked by ravin 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
forget it. i just looked in the mirror. its self explaining enough.......
2007-01-11 04:20:43 · update #1
ok, i get it. my low self esteem isnt exactly a turn on. but after so many rejections..it starts to stick a little bit you know?
2007-01-11 04:27:04 · update #2
Awww, buck up little soldier.....don't give up yet.
You gotta be like Joe Dirt, "..just keep on, keepin on." He got the girl in the end didn't he?
2007-01-11 04:39:28 · answer #1 · answered by feather girl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever notice that some of the most physically unattractive you know are happily married? The reason is confidence (not bragging) CONFIDENCE!! It is the most attractive quality in any person. Many so called "attractive" people can't get a second look. This is because they exude a LACK of self-confidence. Until you get to know and like yourself, you can forget it. Plus, remember that another person cannot give you self-confidence, it must come from within.
2007-01-11 12:29:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women seem to like men who are confident and strong but able to be gentle. They like an attentive man but not a clining vine. Don't try to rush thing sexually because that raises a red flag and what you see in the mirror has very little to do with a relationship. Don't try to change them cause it can't be done let them change themselves. Hpoe this helps and good luck.
2007-01-11 12:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider this, maybe it is not that you can keep her interested, but that you loose interest in her.
The best way to keep a relationship going is to listen to the other person. I mean really listen. If she thinks you are just trying to keep her entertained, then she will quickly loose interest in you because she will get tired of trying to communicate with you and getting nowhere.
Next time, try to spend most of your time listening to her, then you will definately learn what she wants. Quick tip: as much as you think you are listening right now, do it ten times as much next time around.
2007-01-11 12:26:49 · answer #4 · answered by rawson_wayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. God has a plan for every one & the woman of your dreams is out there some where! When you find her she wont care about whats on the outside. Just show her what you got on the inside! First find happiness with your self & then you can find happiness with some one else:) Good luck!
2007-01-11 12:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by She is Beautiful! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might have something to do with your low self esteem!! I know I can't stand it when a guy is insecure. It's just a pain in the ***.
2007-01-11 12:23:16 · answer #6 · answered by funnygrrl19 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be so hard on yourself. It will likely happen when you are not trying. take classes in things you enjoy, photography etc. or join clubs that hike or sail or something on weekends. sooner or later you will find someone with shared hobbies and interests. Shared activities are glue that hold people together.
2007-01-11 12:24:01 · answer #7 · answered by cathoratio 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what ya mean i have the same problem with holding on to men , i know it has alot to do with the way people look at you or the way you look at your self im me and we can talk more ok... ps, don't be so hard on yourself it will work out in the end ..anyway thats what they keep telling me
2007-01-11 12:31:28 · answer #8 · answered by shannon l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are oyu my buddy Sean? just went through this last night... and every day i see him.
as stupidand cliche as it sounds, like your self first. it worked for me, as soon as i saw a glimmer of hope, i started getting positive attention back.
good luck man, you'll be fine.
haley
2007-01-11 12:25:29 · answer #9 · answered by haleysname 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well with that kind of attitude, I'd leave too. Do you even have anything in common with these girls? If you do, then you can keep them interested for ages.
2007-01-11 12:23:22 · answer #10 · answered by moviegirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋