is going out of town for work .my best friend will be staying with me will it be wrong for him to sleep in the same bed as me .
2007-01-11 04:16:09 · 22 answers · asked by kimberly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes it is wrong. Picture this scenario:
your gay friend has been living as a gay man his entire life with the anticipation that someday your husband will go away without you and he will be able to stay at your house and sleep in your bed with the one woman that he is in love with. He's not really gay, he has just been waiting for this moment.
2007-01-11 04:23:10 · answer #1 · answered by seeinred06 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have to ask, then you know it would be questionable, right? So if it's questionable you know you shouldn't right? Okay then, done deal. You won't be sleeping with your friend.
Why? Look at it this way. you know a registered Republican has their belief system. But there is always that chance while in the booth on a particular day they might vote for a Democrat by whim. Don't put you or your friend in that position. The penalties are much higher then you would want to pay the tab on.
2007-01-11 12:24:01 · answer #2 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, come on--would you want your husband to sleep in the same bed as his lesbian best friend--especially if you were out of town??
I swear...some of you people really just need to try and think about these things for yourself before asking obvious questions.
2007-01-11 12:22:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he a gemini? i hear even gay geminis give the best sex you've ever had
seriously, stop for a minute - you WANT him to sleep in your bed, that's why you asked us if it's wrong
when you are married, that is a thing of trust - and your husband trusts that you won't have another man sleeping in his bed, on his pillow, with his wife
god! that's just as bad as if your best friend was to wear your husband's socks! you just don't do it!
2007-01-11 12:23:25 · answer #4 · answered by Jim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I sleep in bed with my gay male friend...who cares, he's gay!? However outta respect for your husband dont' give him things to get pissed at you about, why have him sleep in your bed?? I'm sure you own a couch or I'm sure your friend has a place of his own.
2007-01-11 12:22:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking this question? You are married! Do you really have to ask? To answer your question it would be wrong for any one to sleep in your bed!, besides you your husband and possibly your children!
What if your husband wanted a gey women to sleep in your bed while you were gone?
2007-01-11 12:22:43 · answer #6 · answered by littlegoober75 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you husband may have a problem with that, but if he trust you then I guess not. Not to mention your friend doesn't like women, unless he's bi. Or just tell you friend to sleep on the couch!
2007-01-11 12:21:03 · answer #7 · answered by Vesdog! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Whats wrong with the couch? Would your husband approve of it?
2007-01-11 12:20:39 · answer #8 · answered by Tami H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't you have a couch? honestly tho, ask your husband if he's comfortable with you sharing a bed with your friend. if he doesn't care, or isn't worried about it, then whatever works is fine. if he doesn't think you sharing a bed with him is cool, then you better buy an air mattress!
2007-01-11 12:23:41 · answer #9 · answered by brown_iyed_grrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are there no other beds in the house? Couch? Soft surface? Sounds like you have ulterior motives.
2007-01-11 12:21:50 · answer #10 · answered by Milana P 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋