Well my boyfriend told me that he hates it when I block him when he starts being romantic. I dont mean physically.. whenever he tries to show me he loves me I block him, according to him.
I asked him why or how but he said that he just feels this way. I know I do that sometimes but I dont think I do it with him at this point of our relationship. Infact I thought I was being pretty romanitc.
I'm not really the sappy type and sometimes he could get a bit sappy.
How do I stop him from feeling blocked!?
BTW I guess I love him and he says and shows he loves me.
Oh and we're both over 20 so no we're not teenagers and this is a very serious relationship.
2007-01-11 04:08:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well to fix the problem you have to be able to identify the problem. Tell him next time you do to stop right then and there and explain what you have done to make him feel this way.. How else are you going to know what you are doing to make him feel like this. Your not a mind reader and shouldn't be expected to be one
2007-01-11 04:13:24 · answer #1 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have to know what the problem is first. The best way to know this is to ask him. Take this step by step. Tell him that if ever he feels "blocked", show it. Then you can approach the problem in a good manner.
You probably love him differently than the way he does it. Maybe, he sees something unusual that he expects in a relationship that he isn't getting and is supposed to get.
2007-01-11 04:40:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to stop acting like a woman or you will treat him like one. when guys get too sappy the best thing to do is laugh at them because guys don't normally do that he must be a little bit bi and not know it.
look, just do what men do when women get overly sappy and emotional, look him in the eye and say "i love you" you don't have to mean it just say it, and hug him. he may wish to cuddle and go for it to keep him happy. now you see what it's like for us, how often we have to lie just to keep you happy, so welcome to the pants side of the relationship and good luck coddling him.
2007-01-11 04:18:24 · answer #3 · answered by nightmare_gorilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication and understanding. Take time to yourselves to learn about each other, take an interest, become closer. However the ability to stay together I think is totally dependent on a few basic things: Your ability to accomodate the other persons personality and how well you cope with the ups and downs of life.
HTH's!
2007-01-11 04:17:58 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like to me that u both need to work on your feelings alittle bit, sit down and have a nice talk, or u can be the bigger person and surprise him with something romnatic. show him that u r tryng, but let him no that he has to meet u in the middle this cant be a give and u take relationship
2007-01-11 04:14:14 · answer #5 · answered by greengrass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a bit like you. I can do without the romanticism thing. I prefer humor and catchy conversations. So my relationships always evolve in that direction naturally. It's also in the way you communicate to him.
2007-01-11 04:16:35 · answer #6 · answered by december_changes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you are not trying to block him out.
Then think about how you could be blocking him..
If he tells you he loves you look into his eyes and tell him you love him back maybe even more.
Hold hands all of that if he snuggles snuggle back.
Just dont cut him short of anything if you love him give it your all and still be yourself.
good luck.
2007-01-11 04:14:08 · answer #7 · answered by musicalxcrash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your words, ''i guess i love him'' is the answer to your own question. either you don't love him, you love him in a different way than he loves you, or you're not ready to dive in as far as he wants to go now. he may be sensing your true feelings that you're not ready to admit. contemplate how you truly feel about him and your relationship. good luck!
2007-01-11 04:16:38 · answer #8 · answered by eclecticmoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a confused one to me. what girl wouldn't want a romantic guy. i don't know what you mean by to sappy, when he flips the script on your *** don't complain. reconsider if that's the kind of man you want don't spoil him for the rest of us
2007-01-11 04:15:10 · answer #9 · answered by golden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know what "blocking" means. Do you say no? Do you pull away, do you walk away, do you not return a hug, do you tell him to stop???? see, I don't understand the term.....
2007-01-11 04:13:38 · answer #10 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋