2007-01-11 04:04:11 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Get married.
2007-01-11 04:16:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st --I am truly hoping that you are at least out of high school. A good education is something a child would appreciate you for in the future.
2nd-- I hope that you either have an excellent job to support 3 or more people. Yourself, your girl friend (why aren't you married if you are considering children), and the baby/babies.(multiple births do happen)
3rd -- How old are you? If you are young and think it would be the most romantic thing in the world and a baby would only bring the two of you closer....REALITY CHECK....Its a tough life being a parent. Becoming a parent is a lifetime responsibility. It isn't a puppy that you can return to the pound or give to your neighbor when you get tired of it. A baby is of course lots of love and hugs and kisses and one of the most incredible miracles you could imagine. But it is also a lot of long nights, sick leave from work, and a lot to worry about. You better make sure you are ready for a baby before you have one.....
Other than that...let nature take its course...if that doesn't work, go to the doctor for help.
2007-01-11 12:18:41 · answer #2 · answered by Keri 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would be better for both of yall & the baby if yall got married first. But only yall know what is best for yalls family & yall are the only ones that can make that decision. Anyways about making it happen faster if she has taken any form of birth control make sure she has been off of it for atleast a month. Long enough for her to have her first period without being on birth control. Then wait for her menstrual cycle to come back around & do it when she is the most fertile. Which is usually the week before her period when she is ovulating. Hope all goes well! A child is a precious thing so take care & good luck!
2007-01-11 12:18:17 · answer #3 · answered by She is Beautiful! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea heres a tip.... Marry her first then get her pregant.
Second tip... There is no way to make it happen faster it comes with time, you can't make it happen any faster than that.
Thrid Tip... Are you ready to support a baby, do you both have jobs, what about medical insurance?
Make sure you think about your own lifes before you bring a baby into the picture.
Sorry if that sounds rude but I have seen lots of teens on here saying they want to get pregant when they have their hole life ahead of them.
2007-01-11 12:10:24 · answer #4 · answered by navy_seabee_wife 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
May be you should get married first. Your girlfriend will feel more stable in the relationship and that may take away anxiety she's having that can make it harder to get pregnant. Don't you think your baby deserves a stable life knowing her parents are committed to each other???If you aren't committed enough to marry each other, what happens when you decide to move on, what about that wonderful baby that gets stuck with part-time parents...Try some couples counseling to see why you are afraid to take the plunge....Sorry, can't give tips that would hurt someone in the process (your precious little baby). Pray about it.
2007-01-11 12:19:41 · answer #5 · answered by MOMOF2 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to count her days of ovulation. The day she starts her period being day 1. Most women ovulate between day 14 and 17. If she starts to pay close attention to her cycle she may even be able to tell. Sperm lives in the body for up to 3 days, boy sperm swim faster and die sooner, girls swim slower but live longer. You can have sex up to 3 days before she ovulates and still get pregnant. The best way to do it is to have sex every two days if you want it to happen quick.
2007-01-11 12:22:04 · answer #6 · answered by Jess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first step is: Grow up.
The second step is: Be able to support a family, then marry the woman you want to be the mother of your children.
Third step: Ask yourself if you're really mature enough to do this, then wait another five or so years.
Making it happen faster is no big deal - making it happen when the two of you are mature enough to handle it is.
Good luck, to ALL of you!
2007-01-11 12:13:46 · answer #7 · answered by CassandraM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get an education first. Get a STABLE JOB ......Get married....and then have fun making a baby. Its a LIFETIME committment and not just fun because you want to play house. If you are really serious about being good parents then you will take those steps first.
2007-01-11 12:10:29 · answer #8 · answered by mommy2be in march! 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
there are many positions that you can try but the best way to concive is not to try to it can possibly take up to a year. me and my bf were trying but i was lucky and got pregnant the first time that we tryed and now i am 5 weeks. good luck and i hope everything goes well. there are also some sites that you can go on that may help you out. they have helped my friends out alot.
2007-01-11 12:09:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you get married first. It'll be best for the baby and for your relationship in the long run.
2007-01-11 12:08:38 · answer #10 · answered by Miriam Z 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋