was it too soon to have sex is there a possibility of pregnancy or infection ?
2007-01-11 04:02:08 · 24 answers · asked by michael b 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
you can get pregnant anytime
2007-01-11 04:05:20 · answer #1 · answered by miraclebaby_2006 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are not supposed to have sex after an abortion until your cervix closes. A chance of an infection is much more likely than pregnancy. She needs to go to the doctor.
2007-01-11 04:59:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt have had sex so soon. There is a definent chance of infection. The Dr who did the abortion should have told her that. I believe it is 4-6 weeks before you should have sex and then USE PROTECTION!!! Abortion should not be used as a form of birth control. Maybe you both need to talk to someone in family planning or some type of clinic.
2007-01-11 04:07:45 · answer #3 · answered by jnine30 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
first of all i dont mean to sound rude or crass but if your girlfriend just has an abortion dont you think that you should have used a condom so that there woudl be no risk of pregnancy at all. I mean obviously yiou are not ready for a baby hence the abortion so why would you be having unprotected sex again. I mean dont get me wrong im very pro-choice but you cant use abortion as birth control mistakes happen but you need to man up and put on a rubber.
2007-01-11 04:07:43 · answer #4 · answered by VanillaDiva 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
well yes to both of those and i am pretty sure she was still bleeding so you guys are disgusting and you should have used a condom anyway if she just had an abortion why would y'all risk her getting pregnant again that does not make any sense and if she is pregnant she will be stupid to kill another baby all it takes is five second to slide on a rubber that just might save y'all lives but i guess passion and being in the heat of the moment is more important well i got news for y'all the only thing y'all can do right now is prey that y'all last night of passions does not cause her a*s to be sitting back up on the abortion table getting tubes stuck in her a*s all over again and even worse a nasty infection that the both of you could have prevented but good luck and i will definitely be praying for y'all
2007-01-11 04:18:26 · answer #5 · answered by ohsosexy2006 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all it is not the right thing to do after having any type of surgery/abortion. the body has not had time to heal which could make matters worse includding infertility or infection and not to mention that her body may have been damaged.
WHAT WERE YOU TWO THINKING. you should have been consulting with a doctor instesd of doing your thing and then asking questions. iI think you should contact a doctor now get more information.
2007-01-11 04:16:42 · answer #6 · answered by ronzo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would reall ylove to meet your girl so I could smack some sense into her, she honestly must have low selfesteem. But back to the question yes she can get pregnant again and yes she can get an infection. Why do you think the doctor gave you instructions to wait a couple weeks NOT days because he just didn't want you to get some! You obviously don't care about anything but gettin' a nut, you didn't care about your innocent baby and you don't care about your girl, but I guess as long as she'll keep on allowing you to shhh... on her then do your thing.
2007-01-11 04:14:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I would say the time to ask those questions would have been BEFORE you had sex, so it's a little late for that.
Please be careful going forward. Murder is not a birth control choice, and if you really care about your girlfriend (and your own unborn children) then exercise some retraint, instead of exercising yourself.
2007-01-11 04:10:14 · answer #8 · answered by CassandraM 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
1. You're a ******** idiot for getting her pregnant in the first place
2. You're a ******** idiot for allowing her to have an abortion (so is she for wanting one)
3. You're both ******** idiots for having sex so soon after the abortion
4. You're both ******** stupid for having sex again, cos sex leads to pregnancy which obviously leads to abortions with you two ******** idiots. People like you need help.
Please call: 0845 767 8000
Or visit: www.sane.org.uk
2007-01-12 11:01:27 · answer #9 · answered by DikiDoo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, there is a chance of pregnancy and infection.
2007-01-11 04:11:11 · answer #10 · answered by mzsouthernprincess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES, and YES and YES!!! It was too soon, and there is risk for pregnancy and infection.
2007-01-11 04:07:00 · answer #11 · answered by Denise D 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋