How would you respond if someone can straight out and asked you, "You seem to be a very busy person with a lot of people in your life right now, do you feel you have time for a girlfriend?"
Or--
"Do you see us getting more serious than we already are?"
I'm a Virgo Female and his an Aquarius males, I just want to know if the wording is right in order not to scare him away. We've been seeing each other since Thanksgiving, and it's time I know if we have a future!!
Thank you :)
2007-01-11 03:59:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
Take it from me, I am MARRIED to an Aquarius. We crushed on each other for 7 (!!!!!!!!!) years before we even dated. (I'm Aries, and since I'm so direct, I expect for others to be as well, but I should know better). Okay, to continue my story...The first date we went on, the chemistry was so intense that we spent the night together. About 6 months later (of almost nightly get togethers) he STILL didn't know we were a couple. He was that DENSE about it. We've been together for 11 years and married almost 10 of those years. We have a fantastic marriage and 3 beautiful children. I just have to remember that he's a plodder, and if I want something, I have to be direct. I can't beat around the bush with him.
So, my advice to you is be blunt. Just ask him if you have a more serious relationship coming. He'll be honest, and if you do in fact have a strong relationship, he'll be loyal to you.
Good luck!
2007-01-11 05:24:29 · answer #1 · answered by Jessie P 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, look at the last line in your question and say exactly that. Secondly, DON'T expect an answer right away and let him know that you would like to talk again about this on Sun., Mon, etc. Since Aquarians are air signs, they can be indecisive initially, but once they make up their minds, they will stick with it. So mean what you say and don't just say this to pressure him. An Aquarian male will usually let you know when he is ready to commit. Wait if you can. When he does express his feelings-LISTEN-don't talk. Then respect his decision.
2007-01-11 12:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow. Aquarius people are not keen on committment. We like our space; and lots of it. You have not been together that long. Give the relationship some time and see where it heads. It you push him, he will bolt. trust me; I am an Aquarius and that's what I would do.
2007-01-11 13:28:00 · answer #3 · answered by 14 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aquarius people are not very keen on commitment, as well as Sagittarius people. And aquarians are generally above average intelligent and so they will manage to find even subtle hints to commitment. So i think it's best to avoid any line which hints at commitment in any form.
2007-01-11 12:39:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey ur right virgos are the best. by the way my mother is a virgo and my dad is aquarius i've read about them and it doesn't seem like a good match my parents aren't together. i know the least about aquarius but you should look it up.
VIRGO all day 'ery day
2007-01-11 15:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
U better say somthing, us Aquarius males are so dumb when it comes to relationships, you can come right out and say what you want to do to us, and we're like "I wonder if she likes me".
2007-01-11 12:09:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let him pursue you. Never appear desperate.. If he hasnt said he loves you by not then he doesnt.....youre better with Taurus... Aquarius is too different from you.....different brainwaves....
2007-01-11 13:30:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋