2007-01-11 03:47:59 · 14 answers · asked by ravin 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
ha. sorry..im not the wrestler..im just usung his picture.....i wish i was though...hehe
2007-01-11 03:54:22 · update #1
Raven!!! Why aren't you out wrestling?? Your good enough for me.
2007-01-11 03:52:43 · answer #1 · answered by kim_in_craig 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you keep trying to be good enough for everyone. Relationships (family or friends) can't be based on performance, but usually someone who feels like you do is trying to perform all the time in a way that will gain the approval/affection of others.
Give up trying. Shift your focus off yourself and onto others. Don't worry whether you're the type of person they like....gravitate to those that YOU like, for whatever reason. Keep your standards, your values, don't compromise....and don't try to live your life to win the approval of others.
Being the "good guy" will not bring you the rewards that you think it will. The only way others will change the way they perceive you is when you change the way you're looking at them. And your motives for striking up conversation/friendship/random acts of kindness....whatever.
2007-01-11 12:01:15 · answer #2 · answered by CassandraM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're just trying too hard. Honestly you're good enough for anyone, never let anyone tell you different! The best thing to do is relax and be yourself. Eventually others will see you for who you are, not what you have.
2007-01-11 11:53:38 · answer #3 · answered by Huera 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are good enough for you and some day you will find someone to live up to your expectations! Just hang in there!
2007-01-11 11:58:19 · answer #4 · answered by Doris D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Figure out what you love to do and do it. Focus on your hobby and your enthusiasm will be contagious and the rest will follow. Love yourself. Be proud of yourself and others will want to spend time with you.
2007-01-11 12:27:13 · answer #5 · answered by cathoratio 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like because for some reason you believe you are not good enough.
2007-01-11 11:54:17 · answer #6 · answered by Stuck in the middle of nowhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because people are never satisfied....trust me, there is someone out there who has exsisted before in your life who would probably say the same thing about you.......
just learn to accept and move on. the best thing is to trust in yourself.
divinity lies within.
Aaron
2007-01-11 11:52:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes people don't take the time to make sure just how important you are to them, in return that makes you feel less than,you are good enough it is just the ppl around you not letting you in on just how imporatant
2007-01-11 11:56:40 · answer #8 · answered by Wish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I does seem like that at times.
You'll get through it and realize that it is the other people that are missing out on your personality.
2007-01-11 12:05:04 · answer #9 · answered by T_I_GG_E_R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you have to love yourself for someone else to love you. Need to work on your self esteem. If you are confident, it shows and it will draw people to you.
2007-01-11 11:53:30 · answer #10 · answered by kiki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋