She is with a lesbian, but still wants to see me on the side , but I told her that we can only be friends, because I am only in to one on one.
2007-01-11 03:45:14 · 6 answers · asked by Darren 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Your advice does not count , because my time is more worth while, ha ha ha .
2007-01-11 03:56:35 · update #1
Your response is reasonable.
Whether she is seeing a woman or another guy doesn't really matter; there is no reason why you should feel obligated to share a gf.
It isn't a matter of 'turning her out' so to speak. It's more 'do what you have to do to be who you are and I will do the same.' As long as there is respect on both sides and bounderies are established then it's cool. If she can't handle just being friends, you will have to cut the friendship loose.
Hopefully it won't come to that.
2007-01-11 04:26:49 · answer #1 · answered by knightofsappho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do u mean turn her out? Sounds like she's already been turned out by the other chick! You're trying to turn her back in honey. And im sorry 2 say, but it probably wont work.
2007-01-11 05:29:27 · answer #2 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is for you to spend more time with your studies and learn how to commicate via the written language before you post any more questions. Your questions indicate you spend a lot of time goofing off and not much time learning.
2007-01-11 03:50:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can't turn her out, that's her decision. she'll do it when she's comfortable with her sexuality. also, keep in mind that 'coming out' is a major turning point in someone's life. it's a big step, anyone that forces them out could damage the relationship. best thing you can do is talk to her about it.
2007-01-11 03:56:14 · answer #4 · answered by robyoung3484 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be more sensitive and maybe tuck your sac that might help.
2007-01-11 03:54:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she can't just be with you then just be friends
2007-01-11 05:05:16 · answer #6 · answered by Carebear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋